It really wouldn’t bother me at all. In fact, I’d probably be the one to say “Hey, look, I got my hair done! Whaddya think??” I see nothing wrong with fishing for compliments, myself.
Of course I might not notice if my husband got a hair cut or changed the shape of his beard. That stuff just isn’t that important to some people.
and there’s a whole *‘nother * can o’ worms, folks. :rolleyes: why is it guys like long hair on their women???
when i first met the dive master i had very short hair. today, five years later, it’s down below my shoulders and is a pain in my side to take care of (ultra naturally curly with a definite mind of its own). the length isn’t for me - it’s for him. he thinks it’s grand, and because he does, i’m willing to put up with it for him.
meanwhile my coloring bill goes up and up as the hair gets longer and longer. it’s not $90 yet but it will be some day, i’m sure.
so what’s the deal? some diehard caveman instinct that hasn’t gone away yet? it’s gotta be sexual, right??? 
If your man knew you preferred him with a beard but he insisted on shaving every day would it necessarily be a ‘cavewoman instinct’ that you state your preference?
-Joe
I prefer that he doesn’t notice. In fact, I try to schedule my hair appointments so he’s not aware that I’m going. He doesn’t like my hair and is not shy about saying so . . . I’d just as soon avoid that scene. Fortunately, unless someone else calls attention to it, he doesn’t notice when I’ve had it done.
touche, but as i don’t like beards, i guess it’s a moot point for me.
After the first time, no. First time my feelingswere probably little hurt. It didn’t take me long to realize that some people just aren’t wired to notice things like that.
One Sunday I greeted my friend saying, “Hey Tim! You shaved your moustache…looks great!” He said “I did it Tuesday. Susan [his wife] hasn’t noticed yet.”
Mr. Dee often catches me off guard by noticing things I really don’t expect him too such as a new shampoo (smells different) or that I’ve done my nails.
Way back when, my SO got a permanent and it looked great. Later that night, sex was terrible, she didn’t want me to mess up her new “Do”. I’ve always thought that women did their hair to attract men. To the bedroom.
Question: Do women secretly want to attract other men? Married women?
My boyfriend usually notices, but the thing he says (sometimes when I walk in the door, but usually a few hours later) is, “hey, did you get your hair cut?” If I respond with a “yep” then he compliments me, and if I start complaining he’ll say something like “it’s still pretty good.”
Sometimes he asks me when I haven’t done anything at all. So I have to tell him it’s just dirty or I am using a barrette or something. I can’t tell if this is take-a-guess noticing or just complimentary. I go with complimentary.