Diamonds02, if you read your post from some other source, say, a straight man, what would you think?
I’m asking because it sounds so shallow and self absorbed to me.
Do you really think that your lowered standard selection should be yours exclusively after one date? Are YOU dating more than one person? Do you feel she owes you for stooping to her level?
I didn’t consider myself a raving beauty when I was dating, but I am smart and could recognize a player very quickly. I also dated more than one man at a time. If someone expected me to be exclusive, while he was not, he would be GONE. And, this was back in a time when women were expected to “behave properly.” That is to say, be submissive.
Worse yet, was the man who wanted an exclusive relationship after one date. Cling much?
Don’t take it personally. There are so many things that make for a good relationship, beauty isn’t the most important, her’s or your’s. It also takes time to discover those other, less tangible things.