Excellent…thank you.
Is Kegeling a female exercise? What does it do for you?
Heard in the Graeme household…“Graeme? Where are you going?”
“I’m kegeling with the boys tonight honey…I’ll be back at about 9”
Two words…
Janet Reno
Boy, I’d like to…
Dumbguy and Sua, I am impressed that you’d even be able to continue after that sort of imagery.
For the record, I do my Kegels, too.They are recommended to women after childbirth to help tighten the pelvic floor, but they are great for any gal who wants a little more control over that area.
Slythe, any woman fortunate enough to have a lover with your attitude shouldn’t have the gall to make you ‘finish up’ on your own. 
Thanks for the insight fellas.
Masters & Johnson use the squeeze technique…
Wow, Handy, do you read anything, ever? The “squeeze technique” which you are referring to is called Kegeling.
Yes it works on both men and women. For men, if you start peeing and can stop the stream voluntarily with your own muscles (not hands) that is kegeling. You can eventually strengthen the muscles to keep you from cumming.
I don’t know exactly what it does for women, but I suppose the after child birth thing would keep them from peeing. I suppose it may have an effect on orgasm if you can manage to hold it off. I don’t think vaginal sex is the same as anal sex in this regard so I can’t really tell.
HUGS!
Sqrl
I have a hair trigger, which isn’t good for a top (well, not if I want to please my bottom).
Me, I start doing my squares: 2, 4, 8, 16, 32, 64, 128, 256, 512, 1024, etc. Past that point I actually have to start doing the math in my head. If I get distracted, I start over. It helps, but I still can’t help myself.
:sheepish grin:
Esprix
labdude said:
“Does any man out there have the opposite problem?”
Yup. Me! Quickies are out.
:o
…you mean guys actually try to STOP???
wow.
Silly Esprix, those aren’t squares. Squaring a number means multiplying it by itself. So it would be 2, 4, 16, 256, 65536, etc. 
HUGS!
Sqrl
I don’t think about anything to keep me from finishing too fast. If I find myself getting a little too excited, I slip down and do a little tongue work for a few minutes. I’ve also used the “romantic” idea of stopping, and kissing or sucking breasts a little. Sometimes switching positions can give me enough of a break to make it last longer. Feel like you’re going to explode, pull out, roll her over, and go doggie for a while.
Just my two cents…
Thats doing 2^n+1. Squares are 2, 4, 9, 16, 25, 36, 49…
I am taking notes so I’ll be prepared for my first time. 
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Dumbguy
Yojimbo
No, actually it makes me want to invade the Falklands.
Count me in with the “who needs it?” group. I do the poorman’s tantra. Tantra basically surrounds the use of the PC muscle, but they throw in a whole bunch of spiritualism thats pretty lame. I just clench the muscle and occasionally can orgasm without cumming, usually it lets me go as long as I want. The truth of the matter is that once I’m past the starving for sex stage (ie getting it nightly in a relationship) I don’t even need the squeeze method. I generally reach a normalization point where I can come at will. FTR, I’ve always heard kegeling exclusively refering to women even thought it uses essentially teh same muscle (I assume). The only time I really worry about what I’m thinking is in those rare occasions when I’m losing and erection before I come. Then I focus on the wildest fantasies I can think of. If I’ve gotten too used to jerking off sex can occasionally not be stimulating enough physically, so I need to focus on the mental to make up for it.
Uh, Omni, that was more than we need to know. :o
I have enough trouble coming as it is. If I need to reduce an erection, though, I hum O Canada to myself. Then God Save The Queen. And if both fail, The Star Spangled Banner.
Like Matt, I am one of the guys at the other end of the spectrum. The risk with me (increasingly so as I age, damn it!) is that I won’t be able to come, and although when I was younger and chock full of hormones, I didn’t have to DO anything in particular in order to be able to come, I now have to really REACH for it, concentrating on my own orgasm to the exclusion of all else or it doesn’t happen.
I’ve always been that way. It was kind of nice when I was 22 and women were expecting premature-and-quit. On the other hand, it has ruined all effective possibilities for me for random casual sex (I never come) & although everyone says I’m on the better side of the deal there, just for once I’d like to have a taste of what it is that I’m missing 
Like Balance, I’ve always found no reason to quit just because I did orgasm first anyhow…it’s still a very pleasant environment to be in…about 1 time in 10, I can come twice, and once I came back for thirds without interruption
Right on, Esprix. I’ve done the same thing, except I’ve gotten too used to the “Multiply by 2” deal and have to start using the number three. Most of the time, it’s not an issue, but when I think things are moving too quickly, it’s all “3x3=9, 9x3=18, 18x3=54… etc” in my mind
Math problems.
Of course, men who can do longer and more complex math problems in their heads are correspondingly better lovers.
Dr. J (B.S., Mathematics, U. of Kentucky, 1996)
This was a joke between an ex and I, only because she once asked this very question and I confessed.
This is bad, so if you are squimish please go to the next post . . . really . . .
Now you have to remember that I am a 20 year old male at this point . . . .
So I am going for whatever stops the testosterone flood . . .
OK . . .
Bloody puppies.
It’s terrible I know, but that thought could make me feel very non-sexual very fast. I love dogs, and who doesn’t love puppies ?
Hey ! Its a better alternative to other bleeding loved ones.
BTW, then I turned 21 and I learned I had a gift . . . I swear its the Irish in me. If I have more than a six pack . . . I can go all night.
But thats another story.
Why do I feel so dirty ?
- NM
Here’s one NOT to try…
“But honey, the reason I want to leave the game on TV is so that I’m distracted and will last longer. I’m really doing this for you.”
I’d rather not say where she wanted to stick the remote…