I had a freind once who sat on a remote and turned off the TV. I asked her if she could play “Mary Had a Little Lamb” by sitting on a touch-tone phone.
Sometimes seeing the humor in a situation is not such a good thing.
Well, I’d just like to say WOW.
Between the stamina of some and the desire to please of the others, I think it’s safe to say that the Dopers have have the best men in the world.
Some asshole was telling my hubby tales about how lasting longer is better and he started taking little breaks to fondle and kiss in the middle. damn. If it is longer than a minute and he keeps the rhythm from entry to ejaculation, I can usually come. If he stops or changes rhythm, then not a chance. I finally got it through his thick head that if he stopped, we stopped.
Oddly when he was younger it took much longer for him to orgasm.
Well, usually I can outlast her since I’m roughly a 60 minute man. Plus I also know about those muscular control tricks down there. I also like to concentrate on her pleasure, which often distracts me from focusing so hard on myself and that helps. It also helps to have a good partner, especially one with great muscle control down there also. Changing positions helps because some are more stimulating than others, both visually and physically. I do find it helps much to pay close attention to her, how she feels, what she likes, what she says and what her body is doing. Sometimes, even resting is cool – provided she likes it – while connected.