I gave him the name Sailorboy.
Forgive me for believing what you told me. I know better now.
:I WILL SHUT UP!:
I know that I don’t know the full situation, (hell the two of you are the only ones who will ever know the full situation), but I can relate. I, too, had a very serious relationship that began online. It lasted for 2 years until I fell in love with someone else, but somehow I was the one that was being hurt. He felt I had “betrayed” him by falling in love with my now fiance, but that is something you can’t control. I e-mailed him a few times during our dragged out seperation it started to feel like a divorce and asked him to call me get ahold of me somehow so we could TALK about it like adults. Needless to say, the outcome wasn’t pretty. We spoke on-line, he didn’t have the courage to speak to me. Either that or he knew he was not telling the truth about most matters and I could always tell when he wasn’t telling the truth. Enough about my situation, here’s the reason I had to reply (aside from venting, which ironically did help).
You both appear to be on the younger side (I’m only 20, so I can’t say you’re too much younger) and I think you both held WAY too much in this relationship. Granted I kind of jumped into this engagement and my family STILL doesn’t know. Call me a hypocrit if you will, but I still know what you’re going through. I haven’t spoken to my ex since the fateful day we spoke on-line and it still hurts to think about it. He was the one and only person I trusted, he helped me through many times and we were the very best of friends, but people change. My suggestion, take a break from the internet (it’s such an addiction isn’t it?), do more things on your campus to stay away and keep your mind off of things. Do community work, it’ll make your heart, mind and soul feel a lot better. Do anything you can to remove yourself. You have a lot of anger and frustration inside that you need to try to focus into a more positive energy. OK now that I feel like Dear Abby, I’m going to stop. Good luck, and don’t give up.
Actualy, we’re talking right now.
And you know whats so wonderful? We aren’t talking about anything. Nothing important. Like we used to when we we’re just friends.
This is what I wanted. We wanted.
Okay, I can breathe again. We are friends.
What are you smoking us friends never.
we will never be just friends again and anyway I consider you on of my best friends rel and you will always mean the world to me and my family because we broke it off for now doent mean it will be forever so we can hope togather that one day our friendship will be a love and that love will grow to last a life time but untill that day you are not just my friend you are my best friend.
I love you always
sailorboy
Moderator’s Notes:
I’m closing this thread. The SD Message Board is not the place for this.