Thanks Alice. No offense to the OP but he has the signs of being less then a total beast of manhood. Real men will plow you no matter what kind of day they had. Sex is a great stress reliever. Real men will break up with you decently and not play Broke Back Mountain on a woman they supposedly love. I could not believe that it happened to me… He was a little bit of a bitch but not obvious. He bitched a lot and that is usually the fairer sexes job. He was funny about sleeping with me. He slept naked and liked sleeping alone. Or he liked me to leave so he could then have his boy toy over or the other woman who he told the same stories to and made the same plans with. I gave him too much rope.
In High school I had a guy say to me “It isn’t you, it’s me”. I called him on it and said, Please just spit it out. He said, “I’m seeing someone else.” If you think for a New York minute that something is seriously wrong, it is! Call it a womans intuition.
Another red flag I didn’t mention is no real man that loved you would be so selfish at a time when you really need him. Only a selfish wuss would make excuses as you face a biospy. This is where Clark Kent puts his cape on and will fly to the ends of the earth for you. Sometimes it takes something major like your health for you to see that your man is not all he is cracked up to be. This is the time real men should shine, under pressure and in sickness and in health. In the good times and in the bad times. That is “true love” not a roll in the sack jack.
Stop making excuses for him and good luck on your biospy. If he doesn’t go with you dump him.