Ok, more relationship stuff ( I will stop soon, I promise!)
My cat is very friendly, very. Whenever anyone comes over, Murphy hears a new voice, comes out to have his belly rubbed.
He is most insistent that the new arrival worship him.
He hates my man-friend. He came out for one minute the first time he came over… he GLARED at him, then looked from him to me and back a few times, then left in a huff.
My friend has been over lots since then, and murphy wont even come out of the bedroom! I lured him out with lunch meat (his fave) ad gave the meat to my friend to feed Murphy.
Murph chose to leave rather than take the meant from him!!
He loves cats, has one himself, and he feels bad that mine hates him. The cat he has was un-tameable by its previous two owners, then he got the cat, and now its a sweet loving pet.
How do I get Murphy to like my friend?
If he is jealous - how did he know anyhting would even happen? The first time my friend came over, we didnt even touch, let alone kiss!
Cat people! Help me!!