You know it will positively wreck her body, right? I mean, sure, she might be in the 2% who bounces back perkier than ever, but for the vast majority of us, pregnancy comes with extra weight gain, stretch marks, saggy boobs and a decidedly squishy belly, even after the pregnancy weight is lost. I mean, I personally find motherhood bodies beautiful, but I know you’ve had some issues with your wife’s body already. It won’t get better. It will probably get worse.
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Given what you’ve posted about your mental health and your relationship with your wife, I hope you do not ever have children. That may not be what your wife wants, but it’s probably best for the rest of us. Instead of a child, have you considered a vasectomy?
Have you guys ever had a pet? Seeing what is involved with keeping a hamster/guinea-pig/finch/dog alive might be a way to see what it’s like. And it’s easier to re-home a pet than a kid.
I think the above phrasing “she thinks not letting her have it” says much about the relationship. It is interesting that you assume you have control over whether she has a child or not.
Frankly, if this is your attitude, I think it would be best for you not to have a child.
Jesus, yes, this.
Well, on one level he does, specifically if we’re only talking about his child.
Yea, geez sometimes people read way too much into these posts. Clearly he has control over whether he ejaculates in his wife’s vagina.
Er this does seem logical, if one had to sexually abuse a minor I guess your chance of getting caught is lower with an infant.
Absolutely not. Do not have children. In fact, you may want to consider a vasectomy if you are sure you never want to have kids.
Deja vu all over again. :smack:
Does your wife know that you are mentally ill?
I had a perfectly healthy pregnancy and wonderfully healthy son at the age of 43. I don’t think “many” is correct.
For the love of all that’s holy, do NOT have a baby.
Consider the mental health of the two indivisuals here, I’d say there’s probably a good chance that the health problems could be “many”. (Mental illness is genetic) And even if that isn’t the case, his wife won’t be able to take her meds while she’s pregnant, and it sounds like she’s a prime candidate for Post-Partum-Depression, or worse, Psychosis.
You asked us this once before
So I tell you this once more
Have no baby any time
To have one would be a crime
Do not have one in a bib
Do not have one in a crib
Do not have one any day
Do not have one this I say
Has your wife ever met you?
This. Strongly.
Tell your wife that she’s free to have a baby with another man, or with a sperm donor, and she’ll have to raise it as a single mother.
Also tell her that she should never ever leave the baby alone with you.
Here you go. Get a vasectomy, but don’t tell your wife about it. Then you can get her to have lots and lots of “baby-making” sex with you, but you won’t get her pregnant.
[/just kidding, don’t do this]
The more I think about this, the more I think this has nothing to do with your wife, and everything to do with you wanting a baby to have “light sexual contact” with. I hope I’m wrong about this.