We’ve recently hired a new person for our support team. She is a real motivator, I guess you could say. Anywho, all the sudden she wants to know what I think about this security guard girl that works in our building. How I think she looks and all that… I told her that she is pretty attractive. A couple of hours go by, and my new coworker comes back with her phone number :eek:. This was this afternoon. They apparently had a chat about me. My coworker stated that the girl said I was cute. That’s good right? Of course! I’ve never had any hangups about my looks, I’m ok with myself on that front. She also mentioned that she was a bit shy. This must have come up because I told my coworker that I am indeed shy.
However, I’m very poor with my dating skills. As in zero dates. I’m 24. I would really like for this to happen, but, what to talk about? My coworker was like, “you’re gonna call her tonight right?”. And I’m thinking so soon? Huge procrastinator here. I’m not gonna lie, I have fears about this. Mainly the communcation. How to go about it. And most importantly, how to avoid that “awkward silence”. I don’t know much about her . So what are some things to ask, and to keep a conversation going?