HIPPO BIRDY, MMMMMMMMOUSIE!!
Joins the pileon of approval for SkiffmanHouse Himself and I dated after a breakup and had separate places–we’d sleep over maybe 3-4 nights a week when we felt like it and it was perfect. Tell you what, if the guy next door ever decides to sell and I can afford it I would totally move Himself out to the other house. Especially when he’s being a grumpy mofo like this morning. I’m pricing tasers again…
{{{Shadow}}} I know how you feel–I’m going through the same thing with SpaceDawg. If she doesn’t improve soon we’re gonna have to do x-rays for $200 and then gods know what else after that. I feel like a shit, but dammit I don’t have the money for this, heck I wouldn’t be able to afford it if it were ME who was fucked up–I’d just have to take my chances too. We’ve already had The Conversation, wherein we have agreed that if it becomes too painful or expensive we will give her a couple weeks of outrageous spoiling before having her put down. Reasonably speaking it’s the only real option we have–she’s an older, large breed dog with an injury, joint problems and likely arthritis, she’s not going to magically get all better and go back to being a puppy.
This is the part of pet ownership I hate. I take comfort, though, in knowing that I made a huge difference in her life by adopting her–she had never been walked on a leash before I got her and she and I have put literally hundreds of miles on our feet hiking together in some of the most beautiful country in the world. She might have ended up in a puppy mill churning out endless litters of “purebred” pups before dying in a cage. She could have just lived out her life being ignored in a small backyard, but instead she’s been loved and spoiled and groomed and petted and played with–heck, we even got her her own kitten and puppy! She’s had a good life and I owe it to her to make sure her end is as painfree and easy as I can, no matter how much it will tear me up to make the decision to let her go.
I despise those chickenshit assholes I see on Craig’s List, trying to “rehome” eleven or twelve year old dogs that have health issues or who have become inconvenient. Ducking responsibility that way is repugnant and evil, making those poor critters lonely and bereft at the time when they need the most support and love. Accepting responsibility for an animal means that you’re accepting the hard parts along with the fun ones, it’s just part of the pact.
Well, THAT was cheerful! 
Okay, um, Bobbio? That was very ewww! On the other hand, congrats on helping out with the new babby, hope it all comes out well in the end… sorry
Mahna[sup]2[/sup], your coworker said she was working from home, and she’s aware of your deadline. It would be presumptuous of you to assume she ISN’T doing what she said she would do, right? Don’t clean up after the idiot, but do email any pertinent persons and reinforce that SHE is electing not to be in the office leading up to a deadline and therefore any ball dropping is on her head…
It’s raining today. It must be Margust or something… 