Im definitely not 45.
But no answer on the sweaty question!
Or the FBI agent question.
Say hello to him. Talk about something interesting. Be disarmingly candid once or twice (this works for guys too)
Also, if you’re talking to him the first time, try not to be too distracted by whatever else might be going on (TV, other people, the music, your shoes, etc.) Guys like attention and being focused on just as much as girls do.