Number of sexual partners

Assuming no sleep, that means a different dude every 15 minutes. For 48 hours straight.

Not being gay I’m not really sure, but wouldn’t the recipient be sore? Hell, wouldn’t the recipient need surgery?
To the OP’s question: 1.

Edit: Ninja’d

Well, he does have two orifices. Plus two hands, although I’m not sure those would qualify for “fucked.”

I remember seeing this silly thing on the Playboy channel about a woman who was going to have sex with 1000 guys. All of the guys lined up, she bent over, and each one got something like 2 thrusts. That’s not so much having sex as it is stunt fucking. I’m not sure how many brain cells I lost before changing the channel.

“Stunt fucking.” I love it. Put that on your resume.

That is one cunning stunt.

The question I was answering is “When you see people who have fucked like 200 people do you get slightly jealous at all?”, so keep in mind that my response is my thoughts on the topic and not anything scientifically rigorous. Considering the nature of topic, it’s really more emotional than logical anyway. But if you want to know how I arrived at that conclusion, it’s below. (Spoilered for possible TMI. You may or may not want to know what goes on in my head here.)

I’ve only had one partner, sure, but my conclusion that emotional intimacy is the better part of sex comes from the following two data points: When sex with my husband doesn’t quite work right and I don’t climax, it’s still wonderful and fulfilling. Climaxing alone (aka masturbation, religious types aren’t always against it) feels pleasant enough, but it’s just scratching a physical itch and there’s nothing particularly wonderful about it. When I say that people who’ve had 200 partners are missing the point, I’m guessing that the great majority of those are one night stands, and I feel a little sad that they may not be experiencing the full joy of what sex can be with a committed partner. It seems to me like a way less than ideal way to live.

YMMV, obviously, and you can chalk it up to me being a) female, b) religious, and c) inexperienced if you like. This is just what goes on in my head during conversations like this.

You’re probably not all that inexperienced even if you’ve just had one partner. You can rack up quite a lot of experience with that one partner. :slight_smile:

I have had one night stands and committed relationship sex. Bot are fantastic, but in different ways. There’s a deep emotional connection with my partner and he is the one that I can truly make love to. That connection isn’t there with others, but the sex can still be mind blowing.

I’m neither female, nor religious, but that sounds okay to me.

Not quite sure why it’s spoilered.

If oral doesnt count, I dont see why fingering would, no matter the number of fingers.

Well, if it comes down to that, I’m not counting waggling eyebrows and come-hither looks from across crowded barrooms, no matter how much you beg me.

Yeah, something like that. This is what they mean by “power bottom.”
I would assume looooots of lube and, well, if he’s that much of a slut, I suppose he’d be used to it.

let’s see:

female, 30 years old.

started at 17

3 relationships
3 friends with benefits
3 one night stands

total 9

more than i thought, actually. there were a couple in there i’d completely forgotten about.

44 year old male

Not going to count the fact that in my low twenties I was single and in a country in which prostitution was legal and relatively cheap. Other than that…

18 including a 15 year monogamous relationship and marriage. Currently in a monogamous relationship of almost a year.

34 yo female.

One partner, my ex-husband.

Here’s hoping I can still get laid as a single parent. I ruined my life for Christianity and I’m jealous of people with more partners. I wish I had had my fun when I had the chance. I turned down so many chances at fun relationships because it wasn’t “right”. But doing the “right” thing got me into the worst possible situation… and I feel now that I realize how stupid I was, that I missed out as well.

I also feel like men will think I’m some kind of idiot because I have only had one partner. I am embarrassed and wonder what I am missing, if I go on dates.

My ex-h did not even want me to give him oral sex, or vice-versa. :stuck_out_tongue:

Don’t worry, it’s an advantage. Go for less experienced guys who aren’t going to get all freaked out that you have a large number of guys to compare them to.

That’s awful! In my experience (which is not vast in quantity, but pretty decent in quality) the only sure way to get a woman off is oral (or manual). I could be biased by the fact that virtually all the women I’ve been with have been bisexual, and I was taught to eat pussy by women who had done it themselves. No female orgasm I’ve experienced fucking has ever compared to one from oral. Intercourse is wonderful, and a great way to be close, but it really is not all that effective in bringing a woman off, mostly because most positions are not all that great at stimulating the clitoris.

Male
36 years old
Married 11.5 years

1 partner

At age 17 I fell in love with the woman who would later become my wife. She is and always will be the only one. Some may roll their eyes at how saccharine-y that sounds, but when you’re happy, you’re…well, happy.

As proud as I am of that early commitment, truthfully, there are moments that I get a wee little bit jealous of those with more experience. But I’m not sure why; I’m not sure what I would have ultimately gained by having had sex with more women over the years. (My wife and I have had a good time figuring out this sex thing, together. :D) So I’m perfectly content with my 1. OMMV.

I would, if there were a way to find out who had fewer partners before you got to the kissing part. I am trying not to look at players, though…

I was a slut in my younger days. So no idea.

To all the boys I’ve loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I’m glad they came along
I dedicate this song
To all the boys I’ve loved before

I turned 26 got married and became a chaste woman. :wink: