Male, 29, 26 partners.
I have had my share of trouble about it, too. Even from a girl that had been with more than that… Inconceivable!!!
Male, 29, 26 partners.
I have had my share of trouble about it, too. Even from a girl that had been with more than that… Inconceivable!!!
Female, single, 31 years old, no partners at all (I’m a virgin)
Has it caused problems? Yes. People have called me a prude, and my high-school boyfriend pressured me to “do it.” I’m not sorry for my decision, though.
Male, 30, ostensibly heterosexual.
75 partners with a sampling error of +/- 3
% of partners female: 100
% of partners engaged while really drunk: 0
% of partners engaged while really stoned, estimated: 20
STDs contracted: 2
% of contracted STDs that were curably bacterial: 100
Number of HIV tests taken in last year: 2
Number passed: 2
Condom use, estimated, 1989-1997: 20%
Condom use, estimated, 1997-2001: 95%
Pregnancy scares: 1
Menage e’trois, attempted: 3
Menage e’trois, awkward, fumbling, weird, unsuccessful: 3
% of partners who were paid for sexual services, estimated: 25
% of paid partners which occurred while living in Bangkok, Thailand: 100
Longest drought: 10 months
Length of drought, beyond which you should seek professional help, according to Woody Allen in Annie Hall: 8 months
Response of current girlfriend who has history of 1 other partner only, with whom I am in a loving, monogamous relationship, when informed of some of above statistics:
“Can I see that last HIV test?”
Female, 28, engaged. Including the fiance, I’ve had 8 partners. I lost my virginity at 21.
Male/married/31 yrs old/20 or so.
Asked wife. She says I really don’t want to know. Besides, apparently she’s not quite sure.
No problems. Neither she nor I give a rat’s ass about the past. Of course if the numbers increase, then I’ve got a serious problem.
Mrs. Drillrod is quick to anger, evil in her vengeance and she holds a grudge. God, I love that woman!
Female, 19, 2. Number may not increase if current boyfriend works on his staying power in the sack. 
Female, 31 yrs old, married, 1 partner
Male. 52, grand total of four, two of which were one-time-onlys nearly 30 years ago. Married the other two. Had 24 incredible years with the first until I lost her. Just celebrated anniversary #3 with the second. No problems. Am VERY happy.
Personally, I’m surprised at the high-number exact counts. Do you really keep track?
Anyway:
M/S(D)/45/ 100+…7 in one day (B-day present to myself). No problems.
Female 21 Single 3 Partners (regret 2 of those three) other than that no problems that I am aware of.
Female, married for 16 years. Partners before marriage: 28
My husband has had somewhere between 50 and 100 partners. Before me, of course.
No problems, BTW.
Jess
Male, 42, single
25-35 partners?..(practicing alcoholic for 25 years)
5-10 men?..(see above)
Problems:
3 married women…(one was 5-year relationship)
Long dry spells…(worst was from age 17 to 22)
1 STD…(chlamydia; easily cured)
5 HIV tests…(all negative)
Tendency to remain in monogamous relationships long after expiration date.
Now in 13-month dry spell…first 6 months by choice, but it’s getting old now!
female/21/unmarried-not-single/4
count, if including EBS people [everything but sex]: 12
number of EBS people I really wish I could forget and/or get to leave me alone: 4
number of those people who followed me to the SDMB: 1
pregancy scares: zero
STDs: ZERO
longest dryspell: 5-6 days [There was a whole month I went without, but I was at summer school two states away from my kinda-bf. I was being faithful and he couldn’t visit me.]
Female/23/serious relationship/ 15 - 20 partners (mostly male)- Lost my virginity at 16.
No problems that I can recall.
Male/39/2
The only problem with that number is it has not changed in more than 6 years and doesn’t look likely to any time soon.
Female, 27, thirty-something lovers, one female.
No real regrets, but sometimes I think I was just doing it to be validated. Oh, well, that was then, and this is now.
Hokay, this has been going on long enough for some wildly unscientific numbers to come churning out.
Total males responding: 51 (including SO’s)
Total females responding: 39 (including SO’s)
Men had sex with: 1,215 or more
Women had sex with: 518 or more
Average male experience: 24 partners
Average female experience: 13 partners
This does not take into account gender preference or how “complete” the act was–I just took the highest number given.
There are a few over-achievers out there; if we (just for grins) take out the three highest-scoring guys (triple digits), the male average drops down to 14… if we likewise take out the three highest females, the female average drops to 10.
Please bear in mind that I started out by saying this is wildly unscientific. This is not meant as any statement about those with high or low numbers. YMMV (a lot, apparently…). Contents under pressure.
Dammit, Jim, I’m a computer geek, not a statistician!
Male / 30 / 3 partners.
No problems either, since myself and Mrs. 'quatch are matched. I’ll be honest: If one of us was a lot higher than the other, it would probably be a bit weird.
Male 26. 200-300+ partners including 2 women. (The rest were all male.) About 40 or so were anal. Most others were oral.
Other than crabs, I have had no problem. Easy enough to get rid of too.
HUGS!
Sqrl
Male 55 10 female partners Married the last one 25 years ago