A female friend of mine recently asked me this question, and, being severly abnormal in my male sensitivity, it awakened my curiosity as to the answers of many people.
Males: Suppose that you have a girlfriend or other Significant Other. (This may be more or less of a stretch, depending on who you are.) Suppose, also, that you have a fondness for strip clubs. Suppose she asked you not to go to these clubs, but did not elaborate on why. Would you think it a reasonable request? What would you do?
As for myself, I would certainly stop for the time being, but I would also try and discover why she objected – if she felt worried that I would start to make comparisons. (Plus, with the kind of free-spirit personality I find attractive, she’d probably want to go with me.)
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