Hi folks - Approaching bedtime here. Wanted to hit the high, or rather low points first:
Massive sympathy for FCM, FCD, and even poor confused MIL. You folks can’t buy a break. Feel free to primally scream as much as you want; this is the no-judging zone. BIL is hell-bent on ensuring everyone around him has a sucky life as long as he does. Perhaps not consciously, but that’s certainly the outcome.
ETA: But good to hear about how the seizure thing is sorting out successfully. And yeah, rearranging your daily pill habits is hard; I’m tring that now and largely failing too.
VanGo: doctor time. Numb parts are not a problem to be ignored.
Coppertone: Yes, that does seem to be a cursed company. I’m sorry; you don’t have the resources to be wasting effort on long-running dead ends.
I did read everything else, but am not going to respond point by point it. Good to hear of the various successes and plans and travels.
I got most of my procrastinated administrivia done by noon. Yaay me! Then a short nap as the sky slowly dripped less. Around 2pm it was sunny again and I went out for a few errands, then home to put a little groc in the fridge, then out again to meet some folks from my old condo who routinely meet up for a Monday happy hour at LUIGI di ROMA. Except not this week, so I was alone. Oops. There’s not really a ringleader, so there’s nobody to call who knows for sure who’ll be there and who won’t. The food is good and the happy hour deals are great, so a pleasant refresher with the restaarant and bartender was had, if not with my former neighbors.
Then home and I made a good-sized batch of chili; probably 10 servings total. This was a simplified variant, more for practice cooking and playing with my new toys than aiming for a gourmet outcome. First time in ~4 years I’ve made chili and I even made it hot enough for me, not for the various sissies I’ve had to accommodate in prior lives. Late wife liked fairly spicy when she was healthy, but as things got worse, so did her tolerance. Us enjoying spicy food together is now in a land long long ago and far far away. Sigh. HL did not like spicy, despite being mostly raised in Arizona.
I had not quite a pound of leftover chuck roast from the chili, so that was diced and is now marinating in soy sauce, ginger, and garlic. Probably stir fry that up with diced peppers and onions (AKA redneck teriyaki) then serve over basmati rice for lunch tomorrow or dinner on Wed.
Tomorrow the soft plan is rendezvous w ex-roomie Mike for breakfast at TBD, and attend minor league baseball solo in the evening. He’s got a date with some new woman, or he’d be doing baseball with me too. I can hardly wait for the scoop on that.
BB is reaffirming her intention to come up this weekend for at least one overnight. Here’s hoping.
Soft plans to go to the old condo for their 4th of July late afternoon BBQ gathering. The social swim there has slowed a lot as many folks have aged out and the newcomers aren’t as joiny. Still, it’ll be interesting to see who’s still around and involved. Not that I intend to make a habit of hanging with them, but once in awhile is nice.
As to illicit / informal fireworks …
Around here they’re legal to buy everywhere but not all cities allow them to be set off. So of course they’re set off everywhere anyhow.
I am rather surprised that I have yet to hear my first boom or see my first skyrocket. Many weekends around the year have somebody puttin’ on an impromptu show for a party or just the hell of it. So far … silence. I don’t much care one way or the other; silence is nice but I can sleep through anything.
The fancy-pants resort / country club that fills my foreground view puts on a really big party & fireworks show for the fatcats. So I’ll have a ringside seat for that if I make it back home in time from the condo’s BBQ grilling. Which I expect to do.
I may or may not have time to MMP tomorrow, so I’m trying to get half of tomorrow’s drivel keyed in tonight. I’m sure you’re all just thrilled. 
Happy Sleeping all!! Or working then sleeping, or sleeping then working; whichever suits your situation closing on 10pm.
Cheers!1!