(Old) Sleepover in the MMP

Evening all. Pedaled away 750 calories at the gym (at least that’s what the cycle software tells me). Was going to help with soccer uniform distribution but only 1 customer in 75 minutes so came home to the usual 2sday Mac-n-Cheese dinner. Now trying to keep up with the MMP and my You Tubes, still have 4 vids to go. Temperature is down to 76F and heading for 65F, so may turn off the AC and open some windows tonight. Got three more Amazon packages, just need my denim shorts and Hanes U’wear now…(I know, TMI).

Oopsie, have avoided speeding tickets, when I worked at Redstone Arsenal I picked up several (those folks are serious) but so far I’ve stayed close enough to the limit to avoid any more.

Real Fish, glad to have you back, hope the hands heal up well.

Cupcakes, rant away. And yeah, I get those Medicare calls too, I don’t last much past the first few words.

Godbod, I always found it fun to wander about Ikea; but I would have to go to Atlanta or Memphis to do that, and that’s a little too far. And like Agent Kay said, “A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky dangerous animals and you know it.”

JtC, two accidents in a day; sister needs some chill time. Glad she’s ok and all, but… And sometimes that beer is needed. Glad the Medicare thing got fixed, I really need to look into hearing aids one of these days, maybe I should hire you as a consultant…

Pilot, have a good workday; not too many left now, is there?

OK, need to finish up internettin’ and put in some reading time. All y’all take care.

Happy Toosday!

Beautiful cool day outside.
It was 58 degrees at the park this morning. It’s still cooler outside, 75 degrees with a nice breeze.
The puppies had a good time, they are very confident and friendly.
When we got there, Sadie and Maddie were on the big side. Echo and Maddie have had issues in the past, so I decided to go on the small side.
Maddie is a sweet dog, but she plays very rough, and with some dogs it escalates into fighting. I’m not sure why it did with Echo, who also plays pretty rough. It seems that somebody will get nipped a little too hard, or slammed into a little too hard, offense is taken, and the fight is on.
My son put the GR on the small side, but Sadie and Maddie were leaving, so he put Echo on the big side. He sat on the small side with the GR until Rayleigh started barking at the fence, the Misiu started barking. They wanted on the big side with me.
Or so I thought.
My son brought them over and they ran right past me to Barky/Humpy mom.
Rayleigh has a nice deep bark. He sounds bigger than he is.
Misiu sounds like a squeaky toy.

I’m going back out to the house to look at it on Friday. I want to check out a few things, I want to be sure. My son is going to have to come around. We could modify this house, but the cost to do what I would want to do would buy a house.
Well maybe not that much, but close. And we would not likely ever recover the cost at resale.

My son is very stubborn, and he doesn’t like change - no idea at all where he gets it :roll_eyes:
I want to sit him down and show him the numbers.
I like my house; I really don’t want to move either. It would be nice if I could add a bedroom and full bath to the first floor, which I could, but then there would be very little yard left.
I’ll put all that off until Friday after we look at the house a second time.
The thought of waving a pizza slice under my son’s nose gave me the giggles.

It was two accidents in one week, I’m sorry for being unclear. She wreaked her car last Wednesday and then wrecked Mom’s car this afternoon. The person she hit was complaining about back pain and that car had a badly shoved in trunk so I’m guessing sister might not have been paying attention. But I don’t know and I will never know and I really don’t care. I mean I’m upset for Mom, but Mom is the one who has enabled this behavior and nothing will change as long as Mom is alive.

So, while I was talking to hubs today, I mentioned that I was looking forward to sleeping on our waterbed Thursday and he was shocked. “Has it really been that long, I wasn’t paying attention.” Thank you, m’love. It’s always good to be missed.

I bought another Santa Claus melon to take home and share with hubs because the last one was pretty good.

It is insane how expensive hearing aids are and they are so important for quality of life.

I’m a retired government paper shuffler so I know the jargon and to ask for work arounds. One of the reasons I need a desk for this sort of thing is because I take very good notes including names and ID numbers that I can refer to later. I am also super patient and encouraging “Oh gosh, I hated it when my computer froze while I was trying to help someone through the government maze.”

I called Mom and she said she gave sister money to rent a car, but did not rent it herself. If sister wrecks this one it won’t ding Mom’s insurance rate.

:slight_smile:

Be sure to have all the toppings he likes, even if it is pineapple!

Had a nap, a Manhattan, and Redneck Stirfry. [quote=“JaneDoe42, post:76, topic:987860”]
Yep, feed me the good stuff and I’ll agree to anything!
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Today’s FB proifle pic:

And sorry about the sister drama.

Greek Fire

If nothing else, “I can’t keep doing the stairs, if you want stay here give me $225K.”

Three hours and forty-five minutes. That’s how long my afternoon commute was today. And the morning commute was three hours. I am not fond of commuting.

Up, caffeinated, and sheveled. Off to heave.
Also, if you’re going to roll over on your back, so I pet your belly so you can bite and bunny kick me, don’t do it on the edge of the bed.

:grimacing:
My total commute for this week will be 2 hours. That sucks.

Morning, mumpers! It’s currently 17c/63f with a predicted high of 18c/65f with rain showers. Weather app says “Today is not your fucking day. Tomorrow doesn’t look too fucking good either.” I am unimpressed too, it’s barely stopped raining since we got back to the UK!

Moooom happy Doperversary, think I missed it yesterday :slight_smile:

JtC good move to avoid all the sister drama especially if she is so good at wrecking cars. Your mum is sensible to make sure sister has the insurance for a rental in her name so that whatever she does with that car doesn’t come back to bite anyone but her.

flyboy sorry to hear about the commute times, it’s such a waste when you spend so much of your day in traffic. My commute to the office is 1.5-2hrs, involving a bus then two trains and a walk from the station to my office. It always seems that everything runs on time going to work, and all the delays/cancellations happen on the way home :frowning:

sari good luck with a second viewing of the house - still sounds like a lot of work either way though. Sitting your son down and going through the practicalities and the numbers is a good idea, he really needs to understand what you’re doing and why, and that you’re not looking to move just for the sake of it.

On the subject of houses, we are still thinking of moving somewhere in our local area. It’s either that or finally having to get all the work done on our place that needs doing and hoping to sell for a decent profit instead of market value. Still not looking forward to clearing out all the junk we have here, although I am definitely looking forward to it all being gone!

Nothing much exciting happening here today. It’s my first day back in the office so I was up stupidly early after a bad night’s sleep. I woke up in the wee small hours with a thumping headache that refused to leave for several hours despite two rounds of pain pills. I think the thunderstorm warning is to blame for that. Got up to a very fragrant litter tray courtesy of Blossom so I dealt with that and the other one that Cherry had worked very hard on. Fed the mogs, gave Shadow both his meds on two different bits of food, topped up water bowls, made my breakfast to bring to the office, and a transportable cup of tea.

I went to the gym yesterday and am definitely feeling it today, hoping to get another session in on Thursday. Made me laugh when I walked in and the girl on reception said “What are you doing here? You never come in on Tuesday afternoons!”, then she very kindly told me who was taking my usual Saturday classes so I could decide what I wanted to book onto. Tuesday was leg day, so am definitely aching and should not sit around in the same position for too long.

Good job it’s nearly lunchtime so I can get a walk in across campus to the catering facility with the very good salad bar. Then it’s pub night with friends later, I might need a strong cup of tea to stay awake!

It was down to 72° by 8 last night, and since we keep our a/c at 75°, I did just that. This morning, it’s 60° here! Maybe that’s why I slept almost 8 hours straight?? I may be able to do the same the next few nights.

JtC - your sister sounds like a real piece of work. I have 3 younger sisters and I’m not particularly close to any of them, probably because I left home 50 years ago and because, frankly, they’re not people I’d have chosen for friends. We’re not enemies or anything, just no “special bond” that sappy t-shirts talk about. Still, there’s no animosity and we get along well enough, and hearing what you and sari deal with on the sister-front, I feel especially lucky. I’m so sorry you have to deal with that crap, even tangentially…

My blurry morning eyes read that as Redneck Stiffy. :open_mouth: Can’t even miagine!

Worst “commute” I ever had was back in '82 - I was working at the Pentagon and living just barely south of Baltimore - normally about an hour commute. That particular day, it started snowing just before lunch, and by mid-afternoon, they sent everyone home. It was, BTW, the day Air Florida Flight 90 crashed, and I just happened to be at the opposite end of the bridge that it hit when it hit. Anyway, it took about 5 hours to get home that night. I was so wired when I got there, I bundled up and shoveled snow for about an hour just to wind down.

Not sure what today’s agenda is. I don’t really want to take the kids anywhere but I don’t want them to sit in front of the TV all day either. I’m sure I can figure something out. Wonder if I can convince them that scrubbing the kitchen floor is fun?
:rofl:
Happy Wednesday!!

Good Mornin’ Y’all! Up and caffeinatin’. YAWN ‘Tis 75 degrees Amurrkin out and clear with a predicted high of 93 and N.O.S. for the day. We shall procure provisions this mornin’ and get fried chikin plates for N.O.L. This will take care of the main need to feed for the day. The rest of the day shall be spent in sloth and general overall uselessness. This will include quality cee-mint pond time, nappage, and day drinkin’. It’s good to be a retired drain on society!

JtC I’m glad you’ve had such a good time with your mother and have been able to do things with and for her. I am sure she has enjoyed and appreciated the time with you. You’re sis is waaaaaay more drama than I would ever want to deal with. Have a safe trip home!

MOOOOOOM maybe you can dangle enough treats to make the young’uns think scrubbin’ the kitchen is fun.

red how could you be so cruel to Nelson! The trauma he endured! Many skritches and treats will be needed to make up for this.

sari hope son comes around, but if he doesn’t, it’s not like he’d be homeless. I am sure when he realizes you are serious about the move, he’ll come around.

Now I need more caffeine and to feed rumbly tummy. Then, alas, and such bother, I suppose I must purtify and don attire acceptable for bein’ amongst the great unwashed. I suffer so for my public!

Happy Hump Day Y’all!

I’m thinking a “Redneck Stiffy” might be a new drink I just made up. It goes like this:

    Buy a tall boy of beer or better yet, malt liquor.
    Pour out about 4 ozs. (not on the ground you doofus; either down the hatch or into a Dixie cup).
    Now pour in about 4 oz of cheap vodka or cheap bourbon.
    Now yell "Hey somebody hold ma' beer and watch this!"
    When nobody offers to hold your beer, do something acrobatic stupidly and badly while carrying the beer. This will shake and stir your drink nicely.
Chug and enjoy.

Now that thar’s a jen-you-wine Redneck Stiffy!


Sari. Gosh what a mess. It really sounds like son is for whatever reason not the sort to reason with. Presenting the stark economic facts as a couple folks upthread have suggested seems like it would not make a dent.

If I’m right, the only thing to do is simply present him w a fait accompli. After you sell the place he will be moving. He can follow you to your new digs or go elsewhere. Ideally elsewhere, but I suspect that ship has sailed decades ago.

Or is he congenitally disabled in some way where it’s both unrealistic and cruel to expect him to behave like a full adult? I feel like there’s some backstory I never got; me being a such latecomer to this party.


As to me:
Up early, read the morning emails, have been balconatin’ and caffinatin’ as the sun rises. Now it’s gotten still & sticky enough I’m considering heading inside.

Besides, it’s a workday and the traffic is building on the road below. The road is your typical downtown main street, 2 lanes each way lined with parallel parking, shops, eateries, small storefront offices, etc. And a few high-rise residences. Speed limit is 35. It’s amazing how much noisier a car going 50mph versus one going at the speed limit or even slightly less who’s being careful for the many pedestrians or joggers crossing. Of course the inherently noisier the tires or the exhaust system on the pick-up truck, the faster it’s going. There seems to be a real strong correlation there.

I’ll need to drop off and get ready for irk in a bit. Best possible Humpday to all!!

Sometimes I wonder about you… :wink:

I think you agree it’ll be a good stiff drink w 4 oz of booze supplementing the malt liquor. It’s basically an inverted boilermaker in a can.

I’ll take your word for it. Not being much of a drinker (plus I went to Purdue, so Boilermaker means something else entirely!!)
:grin:

Adventure ahead - I’ll be going with Daughter and the grands to my mom’s on Monday. My sister does movie nights with Daughter and my niece, and we’re going to take the kids to the Baltimore Aquarium on Tues. Original plan was for me to bring the kids and meet her there Tuesday, but now we’ll go together, leaving FCD to play lonely bachelor on Moanday night. We just need to work out sleeping arrangements, as there are just 2 spare beds - I figure Roxy will share one with me and Tobias will sleep with his mom. We can deal with that when we get there.

One last adventure before school starts! :wink: Teachers report to Daughter’s school on the 14th and classes start on the 22nd. Roxy starts on the 23rd. Oh, and the science teacher resigned yesterday so FCD will teach science till Daughter can hire a permanent teacher. Better he than me…

Morning all. Not a billionaire from the MegaMillions, did hit the MegaBonus number worth a whole $2, but it would cost nearly that in gas to redeem it, so no rush there. Today’s major activity will be the Great August Shopping Trip, have the list all made up, now figure out how to scan from my computer for a great deal on 12 pack Pepsi products. Still only 78F so I’ll hold off a bit before turning the AC back on.

Sari, I go along with the fait accompli that Pilot suggests, do what you, as the adult of the family, thinks is best. Glad the puppers are doing better.

JtC, ah, families. Hope it all goes well in the end.

OK, need to finish the morning internetting and get the shopping (and a little banking) done. Have a good Hump Day all.

Good morning everyone.

It’s 57F and sunny outside, with an expected high of 87F and “abundant” sunshine. Going to be a hot one!

Sari, I agree with others here; you need to go on with your plans, and your son can come along or not.

JtC, your sister is…something, alright. I’m sorry your mother has to continue to deal with that. You did the right thing by cracking open that beer.

We left the house around noon yesterday (later than I would have liked, but whatever) and took the long way around to Tacoma to visit Point Defiance Park and the zoo. Before going to the zoo, we drove down to the marina and ferry dock to Anthony’s Home Port and had lunch on the waterfront. We enjoyed the view of the ferry, the harbor seals swimming in the water, Puget Sound, Vashon Island, and the rest. After lunch, we drove to the zoo area of the park and wandered around the zoo and aquarium for a good while, checking out the exhibits. I also feel a sense of guilt when I see the animals at the zoo, especially on hot days like yesterday, but I know too that lots of zoos contribute to keeping species alive. The red wolf was one of those species. At one point, no red wolves were left in the wild, but Point Defiance had a breeding program that resulted in the release of the wolves back into the wild, and they have now grown in population. Still, I feel sad when I see the animals at the zoo. We sat and listened to an educational thing for a while, primarily geared toward kids, but we learned some stuff about some animals. The South Pacific Aquarium was closed for renovations, so we visited the Pacific Aquarium and enjoyed the top-down and underwater views. We also visited the Polar area and saw seals, walruses, and otters. We saw musk oxen as well. We saw other animals too, but fewer animals were at the zoo than when I was a kid. After traipsing around the zoo, we drove down to Owen’s Beach, which they had fixed up quite nicely, and enjoyed some more scenery there. This is where my husband and I first officially met, so we have some history there. After wandering down there and discovering you can rent kayaks and SUPs there, we got back in the car with the idea of driving around Five-Mile Drive, but it’s permanently closed to vehicles due to the erosion of the cliffs on the part of the drive. It’s a nice drive. I used to take my bike down there and ride it. Finally, we drove past old Fort Nisqually, an important fur trading and farming post of the Hudson’s Bay Company in the Puget Sound area, part of the Hudson’s Bay Company’s Columbia Department. It was located in what is now DuPont, Washington. The park is very nice, and I don’t know why I haven’t visited it more often. https://www.metroparkstacoma.org/place/point-defiance-park/

Once we were done at the park, we took the long way home, driving down along the waterfront before coming back up into town and then driving to my part of the county. We both had a very pleasant afternoon.

Polar was very happy to see us, but I saw “urp” again, where it looked like he drank too much water and threw it all up again. His snout was dirty too, so either he was in a panic looking for us, or he was trying to get at something else under the fence.

He didn’t throw up while we were home, so today is another keep an eye on him day.

I need to head to the Orange store for pavers under my storage box, but I’ll stick to the lighter 12X12 pavers. I need to level the ground, pack some gravel and sand, lay the pavers, and then have my husband help me assemble the box. It’ll be good to have a place to store my garden tools, so I don’t have to trudge back and forth between the garage and the backyard.

Time to get moving.

Another heave in the books. There were 14 Blueberries starting yesterday, I wonder how many will be left by Saturday?

I saw some ladies at an early tailgate mix orange Monster and prosecco.
Basically a brunch Four Loko.

my readcation is over. good book, funny scene with pomeranians being trained for rescue/cadaver dogs. and an indictment!

back to the pile up on the desk. spent most of the morning catching up on 2 days away.

Back from the playground and lunch at DQ. Hoping against hope for nappage. Yeah, right.

Shopping is 98% completed, I still need to procure some fat-free cheese slices (Kroger were out) and still need to learn how to do digital coupons; so far it has not gone well… Will allow lunch to sufficiently digest then try out my new swimmin’ trunks (one of the Amazon deliveries yesterday).

Taters, sounds like it was a nice day. And I agree, zoos have changed very much since I was a youth, very few iron-bar cages with nothing but the animal in them for us to gawk at, they are much more professional and caring for the animals.

OK, need to concentrate on the digesting; have a good afternoon all.