“Did we have sex last night?”
“Did we? I thought I had an interesting dream. Maybe, though.”
Had that conversation from both sides.
It’s nice when I’m actually awake and not just in a state of lucid semi-consciousness.
Straight male. Love it, but the Heiress craves her sleep and usually doesn’t get enough quality REM time anyway, so wakeup sex is something of a rarity for us.
Female, straight-ish
In a long term relationship but it’s long distance at the moment, so sleeping together is a week or weekend here and there. I don’t mind when he wakes me up for sex… but when I’ve tried to wake him up for sex he pushes me away or rolls over and then I feel extremely insecure and try not to cry while I fall back asleep. It’s quite awful.
We’ve had that conversation too - I’ve woken up several times thinking he had started something only to find out I was the (totally unconscious) initiator.
I don’t mind being woken up as long as I’ve had at least 2 hours of sleep already. He takes so much time to awaken that it’s not worth it honestly. Unless I’m asleep, apparently
Nope, never done it, never had it done, but the idea intrigues me. What do ya’ll do about morning breath?
Morning breath can be bad, but what’s worse than stinky breath is that pasty, smelly, too-thick saliva that you have in the morning, and trying to kiss when one or both of you have it. Bleah. I prefer morning sex to be minimal in the kissing department for that reason.
Shadiroxan: “Did we have sex last night?”
1010011010: “Yeah.”
SR: :mad: “Didn’t bother to wake me up, huh?”
10: 
“You were on top.”
SR: :dubious:
10: “Sitting up.”
Yes, if it’s done right and I don’t have to be up early. The former boyfriend was about the same way.
Female, straight.
Female, straight.
I enjoy it for the most part, and say I’m about 50-50 on being the waker or wakee. My last serious relationship, for the first 3 months we’d wake each other up for sex at least once, sometimes twice a night. After having sex before we went to sleep. And then we’d do it again in the morning. Lots of sex in that relationship. 
If I’m really sleep-deprived I probably won’t be very into, no getting on top. And the method of waking is important, shaking is not advised. I can be cranky when first awakened, so you’d better make your intentions clear. My ex had an interesting method which I didn’t find particularly arousing, but didn’t mind: he’d rub my butt with his erection. Now I look back on it I think it’s hysterical.
Female, straight, no current SO, haven’t had one for ages.
Being more of a morning person than all of my exes, I’ve never been in those circumstances… I do hate having to stay up later than I’d like to because that’s when he’s horny, though. “yawn uhm, honey, I loveya an’ stuff, but couldya finish fast so’s I can go sleep” isn’t very romantic, is it?
I’m always horny when I wake up (not a needtopee wake up, the real one) but never tried to get the misters up at what I knew they’d consider ungodly hours. It simply didn’t cross my mind.
lieu, where were you when I was dating?
female, straight, married.
Sex I can get anytime…sleep is way more precious. If you wake me up after sunrise, fine…just don’t expect much in terms of consciousness, Mr. Necrophiliac. (=have fun, don’t bother waking me when you’re done.)
If you wake me up when I have actually fallen asleep, after much tossing and turning, I will KILL YOU.
Male, straight, married.
Personally, I’d love it if my wife did this. Hasn’t happened in a looooong time, though.
She’s receptive to it once in a very great while.
Female, straight, married.
I started wearing panties to bed because my husband was so bad about sleep-sex. (He used to sleepwalk as a child.) Since he’s still 90% asleep, there’s never any nice foreplay to it. It’s always something trying to get access to the Holiest of Holies straight away. If I’m concious enough, I elbow him or push him away. But now that we’re having sex more often, the nightwakings have decreased dramatically.
Don’t wake me unless the house is on fire, please.
Male, straight, engaged…
And god DAMN it do NOT touch me when I’m SLEEPING because it takes me FOREVER to get to sleep and GODDAMN IT I HATE BEING WOKEN UP.
That being said, I will make sure you have an orgasm if you wake me for sex. I may not enjoy such because I’m barely concious.
Yes. I am keeping a bar tab. I love you, sweetheart, but you owe me a LOT of orgasms.
And tips.
I had the exact same conversation with my wife when we were dating. I’m reading a novel, she’s asleep, then all of a sudden she “wakes up” and we start going to town.
And yes: she was on top, sitting, and didn’t remember a thing when she woke up.
It never happened again. 
If you are both nekid and sleeping “spoon style” it is possible to awaken, do it, then go back to sleep without ever experiencing each others breath.
When it is done to me, I enjoy it, but I am a very early riser (eer…getter out of beder) and my wife has only once had the chance to greet me with sex.
She is a very sound sleeper and I might as well be making love to a sack of flour (albeit a very attractive sack of flour) One morning the house right next to us caught on fire and there was screaming, people running through our yard, police and fire sirens and two hours later when she rose, she asked, "Anthing interesting happen this morning? She had slept right throuh it. I sometimes wonder if our morning sex affects her similarly.
It does not help that my wife’s cats and my dog will come in and stand around the bed or on the bed, making, “I want to be fed,” noices and actions as we attempt wakeup sex.
So do I like it? Yes! Have I had it successfully much? Absolutely not.
Awakened has moved to its more metaphorical connotations. “Awakened” is when you have just discovered something new and amazing, and “woke up” is what you do every morning.
Straight male - if I was awakened for sex very often, I’d probably die from overstimulation, but if I’m woken up for it, that’s fine whenever.
Although I’ve found more women turn it down, so I don’t do any waking up or awakening as a general rule.
Female, straight. It’s lovely, aside from morning breath. Being slowly awakened with soft caresses and kisses and massages…
I never realized how many men were into it too…I’ll have to keep that in mind!
Re: awoken/woke up. “Wake up” is etymologically consistent with the German aufwachsen, wachsen meaning “to sprout” and auf meaning something like “on” or “vertically”, or, more generally, up.