Male, gay, in a relationship.
If I don’t have to do anything but just lie there, it’s all good. 
M/S/D
My awake mind is very much down with it, but my ex would start and the sleeping mind would try and push her away until I woke up. I guess I want to stay faithful even in my sleep. :o
What she said.
But some guys like getting smacked.
I have to admit I’m surprised by the number of people in this thread who would like being awakened by sex. (Sleep is precious…) Presumably if it’s someone you trust, who has earned their place in your bed, and you have come to a mutually-satisfactory agreement, it’s no problem. But when I first saw the thread title, I thought, “How impolite!”
I must admit that the idea intrigues me, but I’m a guy, and I’m not so far from the days when I was basically just a walking bag of hormones with a brain on top. The number of women who like this is quite an eye-opener.
Well, I wouldn’t like being woken up with a poke in the back (with whatever part of the anatomy) and a growled “Wanna fuck?”. That would probably warrant a smack at the very least. (Although if I were in bed with such a person in the first place I would probably need to get my head examined anyway.) I don’t mind it if the asking is done right, however; although don’t expect me to do anything too energetic when you’ve woken me at 2am. Plus I’m able to fall asleep pretty quickly - that might have something to do with it.
TMI:That’s how my BF often is about wake-up-in-the-night sex, too. I wake up because something is carefully prodding me in a certain spot, trying to gain entrance. Maybe if he would wake me up with foreplay instead we wouldn’t go through so much lube.
Wow, that would be cool. Instead of, you know, hard thing poking at you insistently until it finally “works”.
Heh I find it kind of amusing that men will just poke at their SO until she begrudgingly allows entry. I know that wouldn’t work on my SO, so I try to make sure I get her to the point I’m at through kissing, caressing, etc before she wakes up. I don’t think it would work any other way…
I find that presents help get females in the mood 
Male, straight, and hell yes
Perhaps I’m oversensitive, but that “poke till she lets you in” thing wouldn’t work on me. Sleep-sexing or not, all that would get anyone from me is a sharp elbowing or worse.
Female, straight, married. Also insomniac. So if I’m asleep, DO NOT wake me up. EVER. Really.
Straight male. Wake me up before you come come. No really. I find it twice as sexy as “normal” sex. Just don’t wake me up exactly 4 hours after I went to bed. I get serious headaches when that happens. Don’t know why.
Female, straight, and single.
I’m definitely in the camp with the “wake me ups.” Especially if I’m awakened with kisses on my neck combined with an erection snuggled up against me. If it’s raining outside, I’m likely to be the one waking him up.
This is probably because I can fall asleep pretty easily. I have to say though, I can’t promise I’ll remember in the morning…so, go ahead…WAKE me!
I miss being woken up for sex. When my husband could still sleep in bed, but had trouble with waking in the middle of the night, he used to wake me sometime intentionally, some times not, and once I was awake, we would often have sex of some sort–hand jobs or BJs for the most part, but sometimes intercourse. I get to sleep easily and was not then sleep deprived, so it was no big impact in my sleep and it helped him get back to sleep more quickly. In the last two years though, he has been unable to lie down for more than a few minutes, so no more do I get woken for sex. 
The first five years or so of our relationship he would fairly often try to sneak sex while I was asleep. This started as a joke based on a light hearted conversation and then developed into a game. In nearly all other contexts that I can think of sneaking sex would be reprehensible, but it worked for us and resulted in some very good sex indeed, and a lot of laughs, not something you often get together I suppose.
I am female, bi, and married.
My wife is generally receptive(I’m careful to begin with some nice foreplay) and appreciative, but we don’t do it much because she has trouble going back to sleep afterwards.
She claims she has tried to wake me on occasion, but has been unsuccessful. I, of course, do not remember said times.
Enjoy,
Steven
When you’re married, you still get to sleep pretty much every day. Sex, on the other hand…well, you take it whenever you can get it. Sure, I’d rather she say something BEFORE I’m dreaming about the important speech I have to make to the United Nations, but groggy sex is still sex.
Straight, male, I like it but do it at your own peril.
First of all, I’m a heavy sleeper so if you can wake me during a deep sleep, you’ve done something few have.
Second of all, it takes me a long time to wake up. I hate mornings no matter when they happen or how much I’ve slept (so they might as well happen early, right?). I usually have wood when I wake up so that really isn’t an issue, what is an issue is sensitivity. What this means for said female is that we are going to be at this for a while so if she isn’t up for it, it isn’t a really good idea to wake me. I’m really more of a daytime person when it comes to sex.
Female, straight, married.
Hell no, don’t wake me the fuck up. I have difficulty falling asleep, and if I wake up before I"m supposed to it takes forever to fall asleep again. Fortunately my husband feels the same way. He would kick my ass (figuratively, not literally) if I awakened him. He’s a bitch if he doesn’t get enough sleep. We have enough awake hours that we shouldn’t need nooky during the night.
In the mouth?
With a clenched fist :eek:
I remember sex…vaguely