Jax - ditto for your GF as well. While penetration was always possible for me, my problem was with the exact muscles that you’re having a problem with.
Thanks Zyada. I’ll hold off for now, she has no clue I even posted this. I just did it to help Ronin out.
She is very self-conscious about it, she may become my ex g/f if she finds out I’m putting this situation on the net.
She really wants to be able to experience this with me, so I’m going to go as slowly as she needs and just basically try to nudge her in the correct direction(professional help).