I’m a 47 year old male with a gorgeous wife that everyone we meet likes. She is playful and fun to be around, especially when she drinks. We live temporarily in a very nice Rv resort, which tends to be occupied by mostly men working away from home. I would like opinions please.
I work night shift and unfortunately I work on Friday night. The resort has an outside self serve kitchen and bar. Guys hang out there and cook and drink till late. Should it bother me to leave for work while my tiny 4’11" sexy as hell wife goes back down there to hang out and drink with these guys? Mind you, neither of us knows these guys.
It’s unclear if you’re worried about (A) her getting assaulted or (B) her being unfaithful.
If A, is she worried? I would think you should be able to discuss the situation together and, if she thinks there’s a risk, she could avoid the common area on Friday nights.
If B, there’s not much you can do, it’s a big world out there.
Either you trust her or you don’t.
Trust her not to cheat. Trust her to look after herself. Trust her to spot trouble arising and exit if needs be.
She doesn’t know who you’re congregating with at your lunch time etc, so she seems to trust you.
Do you reciprocate?
Lol.
Next time, choose an ugly wife. Lesson learned.
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Should it bother you? Yes, but mainly because you aren’t in a position to participate.
Let’s face it, an attractive woman is going to get the attention of these guys. If they live in the resort then your wife should be able to keep them at bay by simply mentioning she is married. She should still expect the eye-candy looks and flirtatious comments.
In my opinion elbows has it covered: “Trust her to spot trouble arising and exit if needs be.”
I called the join date before finishing the opening sentence of the OP.
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First thing I looked as well.
A friend of a friend married a homely guy because she figured he would never be able to cheat on her. Didn’t work.
Perhaps OP can turn this situation to everyone’s advantage by monetizing it?
Win-Win-Win.
Hard to see what the guys get out of monetizing. At least for the kind of monetizing that first comes to mind.
A “nice RV resort”? Such things exist? My only exposure to such things comes from the movies; which rarely paint a RV park in good light.
In response to the OP; either you trust your wife; and let her do whatever she wants to do, or you do not trust her, in which case, in my opinion, you should not be married.
@ ss: Well, a third possibility is to get used to sloppy seconds when he gets home from work. Some folks like that just fine.
All of life is a tradeoff; good and bad come as a package deal. She might be that hot.
The OP doesn’t mention where he is. We have [del]spies[/del] Dopers all over the world. Perhaps there’s somebody nearby who could visit the trailer park and report back. All field research done in the name of Science! and Fighting Ignorance of course. 
Pics?
RV resort? Night shift? Self-serve bar?
And they say the dream is dead…
You say that neither one of you “knows” these guys but I am pretty sure that is only half true at this point.
In the remote possibility that you are serious, she is probably bored out of her mind and is just trying to pass the time while you are at work overnight. There is nothing wrong with a wife hanging out with guys in general unless you are of the Cleaver University school of thought. Despite some beliefs to the contrary, it is possible for unaccompanied women to be in the presence of men without odd 70’s music starting up in the background.
In real life I’d say very remote. But on the internet who knows?
In the world I live in, perhaps a bubble, probably, but maybe we all live in bubbles now, there’s a concept of customs and boundaries and married women don’t hang out and drink alone with unaccompanied guys, they themselves being the ones who decide not to do that, not anyone else ‘ordering’ them not to. But if it works in whatever splinter of our fractured culture various other people live in, I’m very happy for all the people for whom that works.
IOW on the again long odds this is not made up for laughs, there’s no way nowadays to give advice to people whose basic assumptions about life and relationships are from another galaxy AFAIC, and would probably view mine (and my wife’s) the same way.
They are probably more interested in drinking than fooling around. And as one woman’s song said: “Don’t come home a drinkin’ with loving on your mind!” (Men’s things do not work very well when they have been drinking.)
With that said, they will probably boast and flirt with her, but I wouldn’t worry about it.
If you are really concerned, then get one of these…
Whoa there mister. Get in line.
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