Poll for engaged, married or formerly married dopers:

A) How long did you date before getting engaged?
B) How old were you when you were married (or, for the engaged, how old will you be when you get married)?

A) Two years and about 4 months

B) 27 (and my husband was 31)

A) 5 years
B) 27 for me and my wife was 32

I got engaged after dating my (now) husband for 4 years, 3 months.

We were married 14 months later, right after I turned 24. He had just turned 27.

(That was about six weeks ago.)

A) Two and a half months of dating, then we got married (however, we were good friends for two years prior to dating)

B) I was 25, he was 23. We will celebrate our two year anniversary in February.

First wife.

a) We were high school sweethearts, broke up, got back together about 4-5 years later. Dated for about a year before we got married.

b) We were both around 21-22 when we got married. It lasted 10 months.

Second and current wife.

a) Dated about 7-8 years.

b) Married around the age of 30-31. Will be happily married for 9 years on Sept 28th.
In both cases there was no long engagement. Once the word “married” came into the picture we tied the knot within a few months.

a) We knew each other for almost 3 months before the wedding.

b) I was 22 and hubby was 24. We’ll celebrate our 21st anniversary on Dec. 30th!

A) Eight months
B) I was 22, he was 29

a. 2 years
b. 18

a) One year (well… 14 months)
b) 25 (both of us)

a) We didn’t have a whole lot of time to be engaged - we eloped 4 weeks after our first date. In December it’ll be 22 years.

b) I was 29, he was 27.

A) Five Months.
B) Me 22, her 21.

We celebrated our 16th anniversary earlier this year.

A) Arranged marriage, no dating before engagement.
B) Both 25.

(Married over 7 years now, couldn’t be happier.)

a) Special circumstances: separated by 1200 miles. Became friends by mail, fell in love over a period of 6 months by written word and phone. Became engaged at 7 months upon first meeting. So no “dating”, although there was a “courtship” period. Engagement lasted two years.

b) 39.

A) How long did you date before getting engaged?
about 5 months, and married a month later
B) How old were you when you were married (or, for the engaged, how old will you be when you get married)?34

A) He proposed on the third date (which was also the third day we knew each other) but I didn’t accept until 9 months later.

B) 22

  1. Dating for just shy of 2 years before the question was popped.

  2. I was 24 and he was 27 when we got married.

1 year of dating, then

4 years of living together, then

1 year of engagement (while still living together)

both almost 25 when married.

Married 11 years.

Dated for 2 1/2 years, throughout our last 2 years of college, before we got engaged.

Married at 23 (me) and 24 (him).

Celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary last April.

(Oh, and though it wasn’t asked, let me offer a bit of unsolicited advice: If, when you get married, the trend is mile high hair and huge shoulder pads, resist the urge to be trendy. Your children will make fun of you.)

We were long-distance for a couple years, because we met over the internet. Two or three years of online/long distance dating, immediately followed by a year of living together, a yearish of engagement, and three months (as of today) of marriage.

We’re 24.