Since I promised my friend I wouldn’t tell this to anyone I know…how about a fucking rant? To people who he doesn’t know personally.
I have a friend name Matthew. He goes to a different school from me about 30 minutes away. He came out to a couple friends. But told me a secret. He slept with his fuckin teacher! I had the same situation but thanks to jayjay that was solved. So my friend was heartbroken, after the fuckin teacher laid out all his frustrations on him and broke his heart. He goes “You’re a fuckin mistake, you’re a teenager! I can’t believe I did this!” After about 6 months of this.
I thought the story was kind of phony, so I bring Matt’s hot ass with me and we confront his (might I say hot) teacher. He basically told us to leave and he never wants to see Matthew’s again. Being so pissed off after a while of cussing, we left with me saying “expect me the fuck back.”
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Look here motherfucker, kill yourself because your existence offends me. You’re so friggin lucky, that we aren’t bringing the law into this because it’ll ruin Matthew’s repute as well as yours. Too bad you didn’t have one to begin with you rat bastard.
Aww, you still live with your parents…how cute. Why don’t you make your existence useful by taking your daddy’s shotgun and blow your brains out with it? You’re an idiotic, worthless snatch with absolutely nothing to say. Your integrity makes me wince, your teenage clothing style is irritating and your charm isn’t supposed to be used for minors. But I see you have a hard time understanding that.
I’m not going to call you anything except for a pussyfooted wishy-wishy little dipshit who can’t even learn his duties apart from a hormone drive. Even so, it was fine (but “immoral”) until you fucked it up. You’re not a man nor a teacher you’re a little boy who swoons like a little retarded school girl over the hot kid in town.
“You’re a mistake.” TOUGH SHIT! You’re the wise ass who brought it on yourself. Maybe if you can stay on your subjects and stop looking at Matt and for once not have your head buried in your ass…you’d do a thing called RIGHT. And not be a moronic asswipe.
I’m coming back, bitch. I’m not letting you continue with that shit. It was fine until you broke his fucking heart. You’re shit needs to stop. Twat.
I know…I’m trying to think of something though. Something’ll come up that’d put him in his place.
Actually, I have no problems with the teacher-student relationship…I have a problem with my friend getting his heart broken. To think this would last is absurd and has a 5-10% possibility but he should’ve of thought of that before engaging in sexual intercourse. I’ll find a way to make that dipshit pay. I will.
My friend wants to get back together with him…ha! We’ll see about that. Thanks for your concern…he’ll be fine eventually. Hopefully.
Something very similar happened here in Indianapolis. But it was brought to the attention of the authorities, and the teacher in question DID commit suicide.
While I understand you’re upset, be careful what you wish for.
I’m mighty sure of my wish. And he’s lucky enough I’m being somewhat retarded and nice at the same time time; I am not going to bring the law into this. My friend is suffering unprecedented mental anguish and it’s all that dumbfucks fault. He could either come to a resolution with Matt or know not to fuck around with me.
Kunimitsu, you say you don’t have any problem with the teacher-student relationship, and it’s just about your friend having his heart broken? Then why threaten with the law? If it’s just over a broken heart, then you seem awfully vindictive. If everyone who has ever had their heart broken found a way to make the offender “pay” as you seem to want to do, this would be a sad sad world.
Keep in mind, this is not to say that the teacher might not deserve to have the law brought against him. I assume this is not university level we’re talking about here. In which case, he did break the law. It does seem that your response to a friend having his heart broken is uncalled for in many respects. Wishing suicide on this man not the least of them.
Ummm…I never said I’d bring the law. That’ll cause more harm than good. I want this bastard to pay because he hurt my friend. I’m defensive and people have to deal with it. What you’re saying is comprehensible…but I’m just posting the gist (obviously) of the things that occured the past 6 months. He’s a self-centered manipulative man.
This hatred is warranted. I know when I’m crossing the line. But you can’t lead on a guy like that than spill all your frustrations on him and curse till the moon turns blue.
I’ll take back everything I said if he could get his head out of his ass and LISTEN to what I’m saying instead of kicking me the fuck out. He can’t take someone and just through them away when he’s not satisfied. That’s uncalled for.
This lead me to believe that the only reason you’re not bringing in the law is to protect Matthew, so then the desire to still exists.
It is true, though, that I’m sure you did not share all the details on this guy, and why more specifically he is such a jerk. I still think that wishing death on someone for this sort of reason is uncalled for, but hey, that’s just me.
I do hope that everything works out all right for Matt, and that he doesn’t let this experience get him depressed in a permanent kind of way.
You are not doing your friend any favours by also obsessing about this teacher. Justified though your intentions may seem, you are simply pouring more gasoline on the fire.
Knock off these empty threats and childish hostility. Either get the authorities involved or just let it go. If you really want to help your friend, help him get past this by letting him put it behind him. Your indignation and self-righteousness will accomplish absolutely nothing of any value.
How old are you and your friend? You two sound a little bit too immature/inexperienced to be at the sex level in a relationship. People can be very cruel and relationships don’t always work out. If you can’t grasp this concept or deal with the aftermath then you need to SLOW DOWN.
I understand being hurt and upset for your friend, it’s always distressing to see someone you care for be hurt, especially when the person who hurt them seems callous about it. But damn, it happens to everyone. Use it as a learning experience, next time don’t get so involved with someone until you know them and their motives better.
I obviously don’t know much about how the breakup went other than the “mistake” and “teenager” part.
It sounds like your friend would be better off letting this get behind him. If you are still obsessing about this guy, your friend probably is going to have a lot harder time recovering. Be a friend to your friend and help him get over it, not even.
Unfortunately, when nearly any realationship breaks up, there are hurt feelings. People get crushed when something like this ends, even if it was an easy breakup (oxymoron?).
Unfortunately, Kunimitsu, you may have painted yourself and Matt into a corner. In the situation as you describe it, Matt could have pressed charges against Teacher for sexual harassment and corrupting a minor. But now you’ve made threats, which gives Teacher the opportunity to claim he’s being stalked by “a confused student…I think he has a little crush on me…” and threatened by “his crazy friend…he’s some kind of gay militant…you know…”. A lot of things could come of that, none of them good.
I don’t know these people or the whole story, but it may be that you should press charges against Teacher, without delay, before he gets the bright idea to slander Matt and get him crossways with the law. Another pleasant thought: if Teacher has tenure, and Matt is known to be anything other than the All-American Boy (openly gay, not part of the mainstream, and so on), Matt would have a very difficult time proving his own case.