Fuck you for talking about me to other people. You think I wouldn’t find out? You’re complaining and talking about me to some of my best friends. You think they wouldn’t tell me? If you knew my personality at all you’d know I just wouldn’t shrug this off. So I asked my friends about it, finding out what you were saying and how often. Then I called you about it. What did you do? You deny everything, saying other people started it all and you were just agreeing. It wasn’t even a big deal to you at all. Unless four people are lying, you’re a fucking fake. They all said you started all the complaining, it was a huge deal to you, and you constantly complained about it, saying you were pissed off. They said you would always complain about how I never change something I do. Wanna know why?
YOU NEVER FUCKING TOLD ME. How can I change if I don’t even know you’re mad? You act like nothing is wrong, like we’re the best of friends. Then later I find a LJ entry complaining about me.
Now I don’t really care what you think about me, what I’m really mad about is that you never told me. You just tell someone else about it while leaving me clueless. So today I gave you a chance to tell me. I told you to tell me all you think about me. You ignored me. Huh, seems you have no problem talking to other people about me, but when you actally confront me you clam up. So I ask a friend of mine to talk to you. Now apparently you can’t tell me because you just can’t. Sorry is hard to say for you. That’s strange, I seem to remember you apologizing to everyone else when you do something. So I try again, asking why you can’t just talk to me when you’re mad at me. You refuse to talk about it, then hang up. I later find out you drew picture of me then promply shot it with a BB gun. How mature.
:rolleyes:
Sounds like boyfriend problems
[before you kill me, I would jokingly say the same thing about myself regarding tiffs I have with my (male) friend.]
But seriously, this sounds like a communications breakdown. What was the complaint? You are kind of vague on the details…I’m really wondering. Does your friend think you smell bad? Have an annoying laugh? doesn’t think you listen/call/laugh/etc enough? I’m really curious!
Your rant caught my interest because it reminded me of an argument I had with my best friend a week ago. The bottom line in that debate was that if person A just confronted person B about a particular problem, everything would have gotten sorted out, but people found out things secondhand, overreacted, and accused each other of being liars :rolleyes: [sigh]. We’ve had a cease-fire, and are cooling off about it.
Try to give it some time. If he is really your friend, I think he would be capable of being direct with you. If not, well, you are finding that out soon enough.
But I am not mad at you and I did not say anything about you to anyone…
Wait…Who…What ?
Basically, she complains that I complain too much. And that I correct her when she says something that is wrong. Your argument was basically the same thing as mine only it wasn’t really just a misunderstanding, she’s just being hypocritical about almost everything. She’s also gets furious when I slam the president and she’s just mad at me, and AFAIK there isn’t a reason, she’s just mad. I thought she would be capable of being direct with me, but it’s been a week and she won’t talk about it. I’m really getting on my last nerve.
Haha oh, and I actually never fight with my male friends, it’s just the girls that I fight with.