Yeah the shower is right out but a hottub is the best. We’re saving up to get one in our house!
Now a hot tub is a completely different thing. 
When we were in college there was a place nearby called the Hot Spot that had a number of themed rooms with big hot tubs that you could rent by the hour. We went there a number of times and it was always great.
Unfortunately we tried to get back there a few years ago and found it wasn’t there anymore. 
Hey, I’m learning here. Great. Thanks! 
What’s the trick to rolling over correctly? (And what happens if you don’t?)
My previous GF pretty much enjoyed any position as long as it included vaginal penetration, which was good, because so do I!!!
But she was also very physical, she would pull my hair, scratch my back, squeeze my sides (like water from a sponge, very painfull!), beat my chest and push on my face.
To make matters even more interesting, she was always very vocal…she would be constantly screaming, "NO
My previous GF pretty much enjoyed any position as long as it included vaginal penetration, which was good, because so do I!!!
But she was also very physical, she would pull my hair, scratch my back, squeeze my sides (like water from a sponge, very painfull!), beat my chest and push on my face.
To make matters even more interesting, she was always very vocal…she would be constantly screaming, “NO, PLEASE STOP, DON’T!!!”
I never could figure out why she did not call me back.
Sorry about that double post, I must have accidentally hit the return button while typing too fast.
Loud and clear, Grelby. But stop winking at me will ya? People will start to talk!
matt_mcl: Rimming is something I’ve never tried, but it sounds interesting (to say the least!).
Ahhh… shower sex. Tried it once, but found it awkward. Bath sex, on the other hand is fun. Usually starts off with her in the bath, lots of foreplay, soap, bubbles. From there, anything can happen. Be prepared for lots of splashes on the floor though.
Well, samarm, I’m here. So ask me your questions about vibrators.
You can also ask me… I learned about vibrators in kindergarten!
practice, practice, practice…
Shower sex for me is a double whammy… as Parallax mentioned I hate water spraying in my face! And I don’t have the greatest balance so I tend to slip/sway (not in a good way) when trying to balance in the tub. This is not helped by him being a foot taller than I am! That kills most standing positions as I tend to fall off stuff easily!
Oh and Plain_jane… if you don’t roll together then either you wont make it up there or you’ll roll right off the other side just keep laughing you’ll get there!!
D’oh! plain_jane: I logged off just before you posted that!
OK, vibrators… lemme see…
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Can using a vibrator give you as much satisfaction as good sex?
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What’s the deal with those gold / metal ones? Aren’t the bumpy rubber ones more comfortable?
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What made you buy your first vibrator, and was this because you weren’t getting an orgasm manually?
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Is it true that many women carry them in their purse?
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Has yours every “started up” in an embarrising situation?
Samarm… I’ll answer ya too so you can get extra opinions…
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not for me but using one during sex can certainly make things fun.
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I don’t have any metal ones or any bumpy ones but I do have a glow in the dark one among my collection. Mostly you want one that is easy to hold onto, feels good where you want it, is easy to clean and compatible with lube.
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My hubby bought it for me when we were dating.
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I dont know anyone who has or will admit to having one in their purse. Mine are all a bit noisy and one takes wall current… besdes I never carry a purse.
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they all live in my nightstand and so no they never start up on their own.
One FYI … our cats think the humming noise means come out and play so we have to lock them out of the bedroom
Well, not all of us are so lucky as to be plain_jane 
but I’ll take a shot at these anyway…
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Not really, mine tends to be a happy addition to sex (either solo or partner) but of course no little, mechanical object could be quite as satisfactory as Mr. Armadillo’s gentleman parts
. Tongue, too. Oh, and hands… and… -
Mine is a little bullet-shaped silvery plastic thingie, about the same length but a little thicker than my thumb on a thin cord with a small battery pack at the end. I don’t know if the bumpy, rubber ones are more comfy because I’ve never personally used one. I <3 my small, battery operated friend. I actually have been thinking about finding a rubbery one, because I have a piercing south of the border, and sometimes if I catch just the right angle, my Most Sensitive Bit gets pinched between the vibrator and the jewellery. Ow!
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The first one I bought out of curiosity and just for a fun, new thing to try. The second one Mr. Armadillo and I bought together because we both felt there were a couple structural flaws in the first one I had that could be greatly improved on with a slightly different design. So, we went a-lookin’. That was a fun trip. Sex shops are few and far between in our neck of the woods… so just finding it was an adventure.
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I don’t, and I don’t personally know anyone that does. I’ve seen keychain vibrators, but I’m guessing those are a novelty thing and not really terribly functional. I’ve also seen “discreet” vibrators that look like something entirely different–my personal favorite is the rubber duckie vibrator found at goodvibes.com =). I imagine those would be much better for packing around with you in case of discovery.
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Mine also lives on my nightstand or in my dresser drawer, so it’s not likely to start up unexpectedly.
Like I said, we enjoy incorporating it into sex, especially in the missionary or doggy-style positions where added clitoral stimulation is a Very Good Thing. Also on that belly-down penetration from behind situation, where I get almost no stimulation whatsoever. Of course, it’s nice on those lonely nights when Mr. Armadillo is away, too =).
Hope that helps!
Peace,
~mixie
Make that improved upon.
Ciao,
~mixie
lol Oh, okay!
Well, I only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. So clitoral stimualation/orgasming and having sex are two different sensations for me and are not comparable (but both are very enjoyable). A vibrator does win out against manual or oral stimualtion of my clitoris.
I don’t know about number 2. I’ve never owned a gold or metal one, only hard plastic.
I was curious. I had always heard wonderful things about them. I masturbated manually before I bought a vibrator.
I don’t know anyone who carries their vibrator around with them. That doesn’t make any sense!
And because my vibrator doesn’t leave the comfort of my bedroom, nope, it’s never caused any embarrassment. And I take the batteries out when not in use.
As for me…
I also only orgasm from clitoral stimulation - and I like my vibrator more than anything. The reason I like using it DURING sex is because, not only is it intimate and sweet, but my bf’s bits rub my clit into it more.
I’ve tried different things. I don’t think it really matters so long as it’s used on the outside - I don’t typically use a dildo-shaped toy as a dildo.
I used my first one when I was a curious girl in Kindergarten. It was actually a back massager, and now I’m hooked. I had no idea what I was doing (never heard of a clit) until about 10-11th grade.
I think women carry them in purses only in men’s fantasies.
Nope, mine never starts on its own.
God I miss sex. I college, my girlfriend and I used to do the “spoon” thing. I think that was my favorite for a long time. But then my last girlfriend and I used to do missionary, but with me upright and thrusting downward with her legs in the air and her feet on my shoulders. That was really nice too.
For the record, I enjoy doggy style and my wife enjoys missionary, so we do both … because we can! She orgasms from both positions though we generally “warm up” with a vibrator during foreplay, so much so that she’d probably orgasm if I just sat there and made adult facial expressions at her.
Some people have mentioned problems with screaming. I.e., they like to do it but are concerned about the noise. Try a gag. Although no gag will completely stifle sound, a good ball gag (i.e. one that’s small enough to fit almost entirely in the mouth that’s got a buckle so it’s easy to get on and off quickly and easily) will let you scream as loud as you like and move however you like without thinking about it. Used in conjunction with a radio or TV on a normal setting, it will stifle your sound enough that no one can hear though you’re screaming at the top of your lungs (if you like that sort of thing).
Tape gags are also good and quick and easy, but don’t use duct tape like you see on TV, it hurts when you take it off. Use medical tape that’s designed to come off quick and easy from skin, that you can get from medical supply stores.
Handgags are also good, they’re especially nice if you like that dominance/submission thing during sex. I like the feel of my wife chewing on my hand while she’s moaning and orgasming. She likes chewing on my hand. (She’s careful of course, as she may want to re-use the hand at a later date.) But if she gets wiggly (and #women do get wiggly#) she can slip out of the handgag and then you’ve got part of a scream to explain. Or not.
Of course, gags are contraindicated if you like hearing the noises you make, and you shouldn’t put them on too early on or they’ll inhibit kissing, licking and such, unless you like gag for themselves, in which case have at it!
And for the record, a LOT of people who like bondage are turned off by SM. I would be one of them. Don’t assume because someone likes the one, they’ll like the other.
Hysterically true story. I was working in a motel after I graduated from highschool. (No! Not that kind of motel, one of the big chains.) Anyways… A woman checked in, I gave her the key to her room, and off she went. Her room was on the second floor, and the last one on the end of the wing. The stairwell was on one side of the room and the other was the outside wall of the building. Totally isolated, one of our best rooms. Underneath was our managers apartment, and he was out of town on business.
After about 15 minutes, I get this call from her room, and she’s telling me she wants to move because of the noise. I asked her what she was hearing and she said it was a high pitched hum that would drive her batty if she stayed in that room. I asked her if I could come up to investigate, maybe I could fix whatever the problem was rather than make her go through the trouble of moving. She agrees, and grab a key to another room, in case I do have to move her and I start my trek up towards her end of the motel.
I’m walking down the hallway, listening for any noises. Nothing. I get to her room and I’m still not hearing anything. I knock, she opens the door and I enter the room. Sure enough, I hear the noise she’s referring to. I check the air conditioning unit, I check the TV, I check the phone, I check the radio by the bed. I can’t find the annoying noise.
Luckily, she hasn’t unpacked yet, so moving won’t be all that difficult. She grabs a couple of her bags, I pulled the handle on the suitcase, and we start off down the hall to her new room. We get about 10 steps down the hall, and she stops dead, and says she can still hear the noise, and so can I. Finally, comprehension dawns on me and realize the noise is coming from the bag on her shoulder. I can feel my face getting warm and even though I really, really don’t want to, I have to ask.
me: “Do you have…um…an electric shaver or something in your bag?”
her: gasp “Oh my God!!”
She drops the bag, rips open the zipper, rummages around inside for a couple of seconds and pulls out…
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… are you ready for this?
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A travel alarm clock, buzzing like crazy!!
Relief pours through me. I was expecting much worse. She laughs, turns off the clock and turns around to head for her original room. She’s apologizing madly, and I’m just laughing with her, assuring her that it wasn’t a big deal. We get all her luggage back into her room, and I’m about to wish her a good night, when she turns around and says…
“I’m so glad it wasn’t my vibrator.”
:eek: :eek:
me: shudder::cringe Thanks Lady. Just when I thought I was gonna make a clean getaway.
It was good for a laugh though. Sorry for the hijack, I thought of that story immediately when I read the question above.