The thread by tapioca got me thinking so I thought I would post. I have always been attracted to older women up to about age 50 or so. I am 24 right now. As of yet, my only real life occurance was when I was 18 and she was 24. Are a lot of guys attracted to older ladies? And what do the ladies think? How many of ya’ll are attracted to younger men? Wouldn’t mind people sharing experiances, married or single. Lets discuss!
There are some dandys out there. Heck, age ain’t nothin’ but a number. Also, see sig.
While its true she was a mother, she wasn’t mine, so that made what I was doing to her okay in my book! 
Speaking as an older woman, I’m all for it.
I find older women to be most considerate, caring, patient, intimate and definitely skilled. Also it seems like they can be more adventurous than they’re younger inexperienced counterparts. There is also something very sexy about their confidence and poise.
Both my ex and my current gf are 6-7 years older than me so I have pretty much always had sex with older women with a few brief exceptions. I’d have to say it’s better as there is more experience and comfortableness with body issues IMHO.
I’m 33, ex is almost 40 and gf is 38
Older than what, exactly? Nearly everyone I’ve been involved with has been older than I, but nowhere near anything I’d call old on an absolute scale.
Older than what, exactly? Nearly everyone I’ve been involved with has been older than I, but nowhere near anything I’d call old on an absolute scale.
My thoughts?
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I’ve always been attracted to older woman. When I was in my 20s, I had several girlfriends who were in their 40s and 50s.
One main thing I like about them is that they are past the immaturity of the 20 something women. They know what they want, and arent shy about getting it. They also don’t demand perfection, or play games. They seem to enjoy and appreciate men.
As long as a woman is fit and dresses well, she remains sexy throughout her life. Heck, to me, woman don’t even start looking good until they hit around 35 years.
Well, my SO is nearly 18 years older and we have a great sex life. So my thoughts are: Age doesn’t matter, as long as you can find a partner who you are compatable with.
My brother’s wife was 17 years older than him. They had the best relationship I’ve ever come across.
When I was 35 my boyfriend was 22. He turned out to be a losah, but that can happen at any age.
Having been one who ardently persued women my own age or younger for most of my life, I have to confess how foolish a policy that was.
For the dubious advantages of firm young flesh, I endured a lot of immature behavior, impatience, fickleness, and other psychological traits associated with the very young, not to mention an understandable but highly regrettable lack of knowledge about sexual technique and adventurousness. I had so many young women say things like “I won’t do THAT! That’s gross” whereas their decades-older counterparts would as likely as not say to the same suggestion, “Cool! Never did that, but it sounds like fun. Let’s go!”
If I knew then what I knew now, I would have dated exclusively women 10 or 20 years my senior. I remember in grad school one of my professors, an attractive woman in her mid-40s, hitting on me, and me chuckling to my 27-year-old fiancee how pathetic I found the old woman. Now that I’ve married and divorced her, though, I think maybe I would have had a better time if I’d considered the older woman’s charms. In retrospect, in my mind’s eye, Horatio, she seems a pretty hot number to me.
Well, of the six major relationships I’ve had, my first lover was older, my third and fourth relationships were both with older women, my two wives were each my age, and my current GF is younger. So, I guess you could say I have no problem with it. You could also say I’m just not picky, I suppose. 
I have gone out with one woman a good deal younger (every mans fantasy, right? :rolleyes: ) and several women from five years to nearly 20 :eek: years older. I definitely would prefer any of the older women to the younger one I went out with. YMMV. Currently there is a woman quite a bit older than me who is interested. How interested? You ask. Well, so interested even I can pick up the signals.
Anyway I am very hesitant because we work together. We have gone out a few times, but I am trying to keep it just as friends (an odd reversal from usual). Not entirely sure if she wants anything more, but my impression is she does. I am really not sure how to proceed or what I should do about it, other than just leave things the way they are.
Now if we didn’t work togehter…
Nice responses so far folks
I tend to go for the older sort but I’m 21 and older to me can mean only 27 or so . .
That count? No? Didn’t think so. 
I would love sex with an older woman.
I’ve always wanted to use the line: “You’re only as old as the man who feels you.”
I had always thought of myself as being attracted to girls older than me. In my early teens, I would bond really easy with girls 5-7 yeas older than me… it was never a sexual thing though (wish it was!!). It definetly had something to do with them being more mature than girls my age, with whom I didn’t gel nearly as well - too many games being played, and I’m just not that kind of person.
Funnily enough, now in my mid-twenties, though I still am attracted to women older than me, every girl I’ve ended up being with has been 3-5 years younger than me. Go figure!!
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Biggest age difference for me was with a woman 11 years my senior.
The sex was absolutely fantastic.
Unfortunately, I discovered that her biological clock was ticking down to zero and she was desperate to the point of severe hysterics to have a child.