I’m a guy, and I’m heterosexual so I generally don’t exactly find other guys attractive though I know women do and I also know that many of the men woman find attractive often leave me wondering why. When in my twenties, I used to see these dirty, scrawny, long haired, often ugly ‘dudes’ walking along with big, dirty bare feet, wearing dirty jeans and a leather, shiny black vest and nothing else, accompanied by two or three hot looking girls and really wondered why.
But, that is not the question.
What do young women find attractive in older men, something like twice their age and is there anyone on this board, female, who has been or is involved with a much older man? I’ve seen these guys in their 50s, 60s and even 70s with women in their 20s and 30s and not all of these guys have a whole bunch of money. With a few exceptions, these women are pretty, intelligent and seem to be happy. The guys all look pretty healthy, but are old and range from trim to wearing their walking shorts down around their hips because of their extended stomachs, from fairly good looking to ugly.
The few women I actually know who date much older guys have given various reasons, from them liking the maturity range and their not constantly thinking about sex like young guys do, to their not being as quick to get into trouble or fights and being gentler and more appreciative in sex, to more caring, more giving, and attractive.
I’ve looked at older women within the same age group and found very few attractive enough to consider having a relationship with, especially those who have lost their figures and seem shapeless. (Like the old saying that we start out in a baby form, shapeless, and after getting beyond our prime reproductive years, go back into a shapeless, baby-like form in our reclining years.)
So, why do so many women like going with guys old enough to be their grand fathers? Aside from the usual gold digger observations. I know the guys really appreciate it and it seems to have given most of them a new lease on life and health, which I can understand in a 65 year old seeing a 20 to 30 year old woman, after helping out at a senior center for a month.