My wife had a normal vaginal birth. Her ob/gyn suggested we wait for 8 weeks. Fortunately, there were plenty of other things we could do to kill the time.
I read that as “Normal Virgin Birth”
This would be my response as well, though with the caveat that any extracurricular sexual relationship would be an actual relationship, as for me there is no such thing as “casual sex”. For that reason, option 1 wouldn’t really be an option, as it would be nigh impossible to have an actual secondary relationship without the person in my primary relationship knowing about it.
And since I’m in a poly marriage anyway, option 3 is unlikely. 
I can assure you that this reading is incorrect. Though I have no doubt that my son will think that his mother is a virgin and that his father is God.
Got any myrrh you can spare?
I did not take offense, but the phrasing in both of your posts made me think that when you think of “birth control” you think of “the pill” (or inserted alternatives). My apologies if I was wrong.
Yeah well, that seems to vary from time to time and culture to culture. I know quite a few cases of Irish twins where the younger one was conceived within days of his elder sibling’s birth.
This…
I’ve been here before and I didn’t handle it very well. In retrospect their are several things I probably should have done differently. I know in the future with my current relationship (hey baby) theirs no way I’d make the same mistakes in the past.
I know people get busy… but i also wonder if sometimes these problems can be resolved with physical exercise… not the main topic… but in the gym. I know it can get pretty annoying when your spouse asks you to constantly turn off the lights or to not look at her undressing. I know that I’m not going to live like THAT anymore and sex is pretty damn important to me. As for my end… this and my profession are the main reasons I consistently work out… I think its essential to want to look good for your SO…
I’ve always assumed it was like the no eating after swimming rule, myself.
Do most women tear their vaginas when they go swimming, too?
Ignorance fought!
And he doesn’t even know about the French maid outfit!
I’ve also heard of several cases of women going in for their 6-week post-baby check-up and finding out they were pregnant. Surprise!!
If you don’t know, I’m not sure what to tell you.
Sorry, I’ll get my coat…
I voted “other (you forgot ___)” even though I don’t think you’re dumb, heh. That’s because non-monogamy with one’s partner’s blessing is not cheating.
Right! Without passion it’s some sort of business deal.
Not necessarily! “You don’t pay her for sex, you pay for her to go away afterwards.”