called me last night to tell me what she got the boys for Xmas…we got talking and I reminded her that SB hasnt seen the kids for over 2 months…she was stunned.
Apparently he has been telling her that he tries to call and we are never home, Not the case at all, I say, I have one of those phones that shows who calls, and he has NOT.
She was suitable upset, and is determined to see them more herself. She didnt want to be pushy & stuff, and I told her I didnt know if I should call her…
Anyway, she cant fathom why he hasnt seen them, but the next time he says he called, she wont buy it. I told her that if he cant be consistant, its better to stay away, she agreed and I said that goes for her too…she agreed that they need consistancy.
Hopefully this will be the start of a good thing the boys always liked her, and she always treated ted as her own…(it was her idea to be Nanny to him when I first started up with shitboy)
So, although I am glad she has shown an interest in them…I feel even worse because she told me Shitboy has been home Every Damn Weekend for the last month! He only lives 20 minutes away! Jerk.