It’s a long story…
Last year, at spring break, my son and his buds were coming back from Corpus Christi. They got pulled over but “didn’t notice the cop car” for many miles. The officer subsequently arrested my son for evading arrest.
He was put on probation (deferred adjutication) for 2 years and assigned community service. If he doesn’t toe the line and pay all the fees and do the community service, they will revoke his sentence and put him in prison for 2 years. Evading arrest is a felony. He also has 5 tickets that he hasn’t paid, and has 5 bench warrants for his arrest, totalling about $1000.
He’s been doing pretty well for months and months, working and paying all the fees for the probation. Buying his own “cleaner” for the drug test, because he refuses to stop smoking weed. He doesn’t have a car (another long story) but was going to work, depending on friends for rides.
He got fired a couple of weeks ago. I let him borrow my motorcycle for job searching ONLY. He still doesn’t have a job.
He just turned 20 years old. High school drop-out.
This morning he asked me if I would “help him” pay his PO on Monday. I said no. He said “but she’ll put me in jail!!!” I said it’s not my problem, it’s his.
It’s very hard to be like this. I don’t want him to go to prison. He’s not bad, just a stupid immature spoiled teenager.
What would you do?