I met a woman a little over a week ago and I’m really falling for her. My feelings are stronger for her than hers are for mine. She is the sweetest woman I’ve ever met (from what I can tell so far). She has stressed how important honesty is to her (which is sort of a red flag).
She is absolutely gorgeous and is 42 y.o. I’m guessing she likes attention as her breasts are pretty much on display when she’s out, and no exaggerating, they are the nicest breasts I’ve ever seen.
She told me she has only slept with three men in her life. This set off my bullshit detector. She seems pretty flirtatious and I could have slept with her on Sat. night (7 days after our first date). Our first date was dinner, our second and third were at her place. We were in her bed and while I was on top of her she seemed a little tense, so I asked if she wanted me to. She said “it’s okay.” So I didn’t and told her we should wait based on that kind of answer. We lied next to each other and she told me it meant a lot to her that I did that.
Yesterday she sent me two pictures (bra and panties shots, no head included) that she said she took just for me because I told her I like pink. I had suspicions, so I checked the efix data on them. It says they were taken at 8:10 on Aug. 31, 2012.
I called her out on hem via text messaging. This is how it went:
Me: Cathy, did you really take those pics in bra and undies for me the other day? 12:17 PM
Her: Yes I did , you said you liked pink …, 12:23 PM
Her: I hope they didnt turn you off 12:23 PM
Me: You don’t know what EFIX data is, do you? I can extract all kind of interesting info from pics taken on a smart phone. You used an iPhone 4, resolution was 640 x 480 etc. Most interesting is time and date. They were taken at 8:10 on Aug. 31, 2012. I thought I could trust you. 12:23 PM
Her: Well whatever data it is wrong , wow 12:24 PM
Me: Don’t do this Cathy. Fess up and I can let it go. Please don’t ruin this. The data is never wrong. 12:26 PM
Her: Well I guess it is ., I can’t believe you would do something like that and accuse of me of something I thought I was doing nice for you … Matthews room wasn’t even done yet last summer and I took the pics in there .
The rest is embarrassing. I apologize and she says that I remind her of her ex husband as he tracked her calls, etc.
I started the following thread earlier:
According o Dog80, most likely she’s lying.
Should I let it go anyway? Is it an innocent lie? It’s hard for me to come to a conclusion on my own as my heart gets in the way.