Hello everyone thank you for responding to my previous post about the whole breakup issue I’ve gone through, but one problem has arose from those ashes. My mother called Helen today since she was wondering how she was doing, and she still loves her a lot, but hated what she did to me. Anyhow when I came back home from school my mum told me that she was asking a lot about me on the phone, was crying a bit during the whole convo, and asked if I had a girlfriend (which I do not have now.), and stated that she really misses me. Now I have to admit to you all I still in a sense love her, but at the same time am a bit pissed about what she did to me and damaged me a bit more.
I would however be willing to still get married to her again if she still would like to, and we could work out our kinks and become a happy couple once more and go through life loving and helping each other despite the risks. Yet it depends on her though if she is willing to establish a relationship once more, but who knows. She told my mom she is single, but that is a uncertainty as well. I am just trying to juggle what should I do, and if I should take the risk and be with that little english tart once more? I do miss her and I want to help and love her. Thanks once more.
if i think i can’t have something, or it’s a challenge i’ll go after it. if it’s right in front of me it becomes too easy and boring. i tend to take advantage of it and push things to see what my limits are. none of this is intentional. and of course this is me, not necessarily her.
but as a warning, if you do go back easily you could be setting yourself up for a lot of trouble and heart ache.
sulcataixlude, I wasn’t sure I bought your story in the previous thread (which was deleted, Lord Ashtar, so he can’t link to it). Helen “had a miscarriage in her sleep”? Healthy young women rarely miscarry to begin with, but beyond that, a miscarriage would be sufficiently painful and strenuous to wake her up.
Okay, maybe it only started when she was asleep, and she didn’t go into graphic detail when she told you. Or you just phrased it that way, in the previous thread. But how about that pregnancy? It didn’t change your relationship, and the two of you just carried on cyber-bonking with no talk about her future or that of the baby? And if she only stayed with you for six weeks, how did she already know she was pregnant when she left? Again, I know some women can tell the next day, let alone a few weeks later, but she’s that well in touch with her body and you guys didn’t use birth control?
Anyway, assuming that your story is for real, my advice is: Let it go.
also tests can show up positive as early as a week and a half into the pregnancy.
but i do have to admit that this story is far fetched. i mean, no one bothered to get the police involved when a 20 year old woman started sleeping with a 13 year old boy? i know that laws vary greatly from country to country, but something tells me that child molestation/statuatory rape laws are about the same between the united states and majority of europe.
But, it probably had something to do with him posting her private email he had hacked into. It included the full names of her and her friend (I am not sure if it was the 13 year old “boyfriend” or just a male friend).