So I'll take it to the Pit... (re: Miss Kaitlyn's first day)

And where was that, pray tell? I don’t recognize your handle; if I’ve run into you in the past, I don’t remember it.

This is not even scientifically accuarate. It is simply your own binary view of the world in which science and reality are supposed to bend before your obstinate ignorance.

(Note that science already recognizes XX males and XY females among humans even without the issues of transgender surgery, so your declaration I quoted is just bigotry dressed up as ignorance.)

No, you posted your opinion. An “absolutely true statement” would be that you are a shmegegi.

This position of Clothahump’s does not seem to be the sort of holding that is considered with an open mind but with more of an “I have made up my mind and that is it. I am not accepting any more input until further notice. Please make sure you close the door on your way out.” approach.

What of value such a person would find here escapes me, since part of the fun of this place is having your positions challenged and considering that you might not have it completely right. If someone doesn’t want to discuss (as in “the exchange and consideration of opinions” rather than “two parties arguing back and forth, at least one ignoring any merit the other might have”) something, there isn’t a hell of a lot that can be accomplished for the good in that particular instance.

On the other hand, there may yet be someone reading who holds to what Clothahump does not because of the novelty of raising ire but out of a lack of knowledge; that person, then, would be served by a cursory examination into the error of the stated position. Based on that probability, it might be wise to attempt some sort of education, and in the original meaning of the word.

I think we all knew that Kaitlyn has male genes BEFORE you oh-so-tactfully pointed that out.

:rolleyes:

Could you have kept your fucking mouth shut instead of pissing all over someone else’s declaration of happiness? Definitely.

Y’all can keep debating the whole transsexuality thing if you want (although I’d think it’d be better to just leave the people alone and stop dragging them out for vivisection and psychoanalysis, even if you think you’re doing it in their defense).

But the part that isn’t in question is whether you acted like an asshole in that thread, and whether your comment was rude and inappropriate. It was.

And the only thing I know for 100% sure about what it means to be a man is that a real man would apologize for it.

And you should be very aware that the person has asked to be addressed as “she”. Regardless of your opinion of the rightness of your position, to continue to ignore the expressed wishes of someone makes you a fucking jerk.

Whoops, I should make it clear that the quote above is from the GD thread on this subject, not here. Sorry about any confusion.

When you address me, do so as “My Lord.”

If you fail to do so, you are a fucking jerk.

Wanna take just a minute and think about how ridiculous your post was? And you’re ripping me…?

Nobility titles are illegal in the US.

And you certainly haven’t earned the title as one of respect.

So, no, you don’t have the right to be addressed as “My Lord”.

Penis ensued.

Or, if Kaitlin won’t mind a bit of levity, lack of penis ensued! :wink:

There’s a Waiting for Godot joke in there somewhere, but I for one am not going to try to wrest it from where it is comfortably nestled.

Please note for future reference, we have two Dopers with very similar names: Kaitlyn, formerly known as Number Six and currently posting about her first day back to school, and Kaitlin, who most recently participated in the Guilty Pleasures thread in IMHO.

Well, then I can only assume that you don’t mind being called a mannerless bigot with the sort of personal charm one normally finds in gangrenous invertebrates? It is, after all, every bit as true an observation as your own.

Even if your statement was true (which it wasn’t), telling the absolute truth does not automatically mean you’re not being an asshole. For example, walking up to someone and volunteering how unattractive you think they are is assholish behavior; it doesn’t matter whether or not it’s true.

It would have made a great difference if you hadn’t phrased it at all. That’s the REAL issue.

Can’t tell you how many times I’ve opened a thread, found an OP and discussion I completely disagreed with, and…decided not to post because

a) the subject was inconsequential to me and/or most people
b) my input would add nothing to the discussion; in fact
c) it would be badly received and probably hijack the topic
d) if a thread isn’t hurting anyone and people are enjoying it, why shit in it?

What, pray tell, is so important to you about Kaitlyn’s identity that you couldn’t resist posting that drive-by?

This is hardly parallel unless you truly believe you are The Lord.

Why did you post it?

Because he’s an asshole. D’oh!