I posted this earlier under a fake name, because I am/was embarassed and have yet to tell even my closests of friends. It was banned as a second account (which I understand), so I’ve decided to go ahead and post it again under my regular name. I knew there was a reason I should have gone with a more clever user name! :wally :smack:
Here is my original post.
Last night a woman called to tell me that she and my husband have been sleeping together for about 8 months. He travels and I never suspected a thing. I feel like I have been kicked in the stomach. He admitted to it but only after repeated questioning. He told her he loved her, he told me it was just sex.
I want a divorce and marriage counseling is not an option at this point. If it was a one night thing I could have gotten past it. But a lie of this magnitude I cannot forgive. We have two young kids and I am at a total loss as to what to do.
Any advice? I am posting under a fake name because I am so humiliated.