Hey guys, you may remember from such threads as Is this a “date”? What do I do? OH GOD SO CONFUSED
Well in retrospect, that first date in the linked thread blew ass compared to the one I had tonight, with a totally new gal. It was, in short, awesome. I actually met her threw a coworker a couple weeks ago, and then asked if she wanted to meet together for a game of Pool. She did, and tonight was the night.
It was fun – apparently for both of us. The conversation was two-way (and not just me asking questions, like say during my previous outing), she laughed at my dumb jokes, and she made some hilarious ones herself. After letting her win at pool (not really, I sucked), we went for some coffee (her idea) and talked for an hour. Good times.
So things are looking up for ol’ Red Barchetta. Now here’s my one concern (yeah, there just had to be one right?): Could this have just been a ‘friend’ thing? I, of course, hope not, and would like to steer it from going that way, if possible (though that wouldn’t be terrible…okay, yes it would). The reason I have my doubts is that she seems to have several other male friends and I’m also not sure if I picked up on any romantic cues (though I don’t really know what those might be – remember, this is my second date
So where to from here? How long should I wait before asking her out again; is this upcoming weekend too soon, for instance? And what can I do to make sure this doesn’t veer into friend territory, if it hasn’t already?
and yeah, I’m probably over-thinking things too much again, but whatever…