handy, I really hope you’re not asking that because you’re still under the impression that I am a gay male. 
Since handy seems so gosh-darn interested in the topic, I’ll go there…
Who in the world actually does that (felching, I mean)? I think that I am a very open-minded person, and willing to experiment, but good Lord, the mere thought of it nauseates me.
I wouldn’t care for her any less if she didn’t, but my SO is really, really into oral sex (both giving and receiving) so she’s a cofirmed swallower. As for kissing her afterwards, we’re usually so caught up on the sheer thrill of the whole thing that we kiss, roll around in it, just go hog wild. That’s what sex is supposed to be about, IMHO - just let go, man. The sweatier, messier, wetter, funkier teh better.
i would swallow, because i cannot deep-throat very well
It’s much more important to me that she be enthusiastic about it. I enjoy it more if I know (or at least I’m made to believe) that she likes doing it for me. And since I learned a while ago that you must always give as good as you get, the better she makes it for me, the better it’ll be for her when she gets it back.
On the deep-throat issue: It’s generally terrific unless she’s down there gaggin’ and coughin’ the whole time. I really appreciate your trying, but if you die in the attempt, it’s prob’ly gonna put me off a little, y’know?
And felching makes no sense at all to me. Call me uptight if you want, but you can mark my bunghole Exit Only - Do Not Enter.
A lady never spits.
Swallowing is better because it extends the sensation, intensifies the orgasm, and keeps me “ready for action”. Unfortunately, like Tristan I am a man who very rarely orgasms from a blow job. It is lovely foreplay.
As for kissing: before, after, and during if I could figure out how. I love my wife’s mouth and will never let something as insignificant as semen come between me and them. [sub]pickle juice, on the other hand . . . shudder[/sub]
Ah-ahh-AHHHHH SWEET MYSTERY OF LIFE AT LAST I’VE FOUND YOUUUUUUU!!!
Spitter here. And not only that, but liable to jerk away at a false alarm, too. Isn’t it sad?
I feel kinda bad, because it seems like the big “O” would be better if I hung on 'till the end, but no can do.
Hubby, OTOH, is selfless and will spend a weekend down under if that’s what it takes.
Kissing him after the deed? He would probably dig it either way, but I’m uptight, so nope again.
…singing “O Canada!” 
How YOU doin
“I don’t swallow (I can’t stand the taste)”
Ahem. First of all there are NO taste buds in the back of the mouth. like duh.
Must be like a tiny penis or something?
Sorry jay-c I keep forgetting you are a lady.
No no no, it’s not spit or swallow…it’s GARGLE.
Oh, wonderful, just before dinner, and all I can taste is the cum from my last partner.
Thanks!
You’re making an assumption that one takes the entire penis in one’s mouth - my mouth isn’t big enough to do that.
And the gag reflex does lie at the back of one’s mouth, where that uvula is (that thingie that hangs down).
but hey, handy, why not give it a try and tell us how it goes?
I swallow. It’s rude to spit IMO. That and well, it doesn’t taste all that bad.
Where deep throat is concerned, I can only do it a little. If I do it for too long I start to gag, but I always do it a little.
As far as kissing after oral sex. He’ll kiss me after I have given him head, and vice versa. Kissing is good, and oral sex is very good. Why shouldn’t you mix the two?
Ahem. Unless the man ejaculates with such force it shoots down the woman’s throat (rendering the question moot) the semen spreads throughout the mouth.
Duh.
handy, if these threads frustrate and irritate you so much, why do you read them? k Please do the rest of us a favor and kindly go away and do something alone (I’m sure you can think of something) until you can either read without contributing or actually have something vaguely meaningful to contribute. Thank you.
I prefer a woman who swallows, but it really isn’t that big a deal if she spits… as for kissing her afterwards: you bet!
Unfortunately, my fiancee is grossed out by semen, so I always have to skeet-cum. Pull! Pow!! 
She makes up for it in other ways, though! 
I was gonna tell you a funny story, but I’m ALREADY in deep shit if the fiancee ever reads this MB and searches for my user name!
Skeet-cum! Thank you Astroboy for my morning laff!!
swallow.
d’OH! I said that out loud didn’t I?