I do TOO have a dog! She’s my parent’s dog but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t love me just the same.
Stop acting so jealous.
My man is a very happy man because I love giving. I swallow, BTW.
Then it isn’t a fabulous bj, IMHO. No offense, and I presume Indyfella was quite happy with his steak and blowjob birthday…?
Swallow/other is entirely dependent on how he tastes to me, and how he treats me. The current beau has this marvellous habit of telling me what a goddess I am, when I am, um, performing my arts. Mind you, with teeth in such a sensitive place, I’d be inclined to say nice things, too. 
My thoughts on the spitting, are that I have never found a gracious way to spit out what I permitted him to leave in my mouth. If you can’t handle the experience, and the idea of swallowing makes you cringe, then be creative in how you handle the moment, but don’t let what happened to Indygrrl happen to you. Does sort of ruin the moment.
I’m noticing the lack of a smiling diva here. 