But is your husband actually a Frenchman? (Well, mine’s Québecois French, but still…!) 
Then whatever you do, do not mention high-waisted pants around him while he’s wearing pyjama pants, because that’s a sure-fire way to get him to hike them up as far as they’ll go, slouch and stick out his belly and then try and fondle you. Trust me on this.! :eek:
I must regretfully inform you that it’s too late - he already does this with both pajamas and gitch (that’s tightie-whiteys to you Murkins). I’m not exactly sure what the draw is of hiking his pants up like that; it certainly isn’t for looks.
Inspired by this thread, I had a conversation about what is attractive/not attractive about each other with my wife. For me, I wish several things were bigger (fingers, lips) and other things were smaller (thighs, cellulose) on her. But to her, apparently I’m still a hot piece of ass who dresses like a hobo and always has something stuck in his teeth.
The other 20% come from making a GOOD decision about who to marry?
nvm
I believe it’s the bizarre man camel-toe that happens when the balls get smooshed on either side of the crotch seam. Most guys seem to find that hilarious.
When I look at the woman I love I still see her as she was 30 years ago. When voting for matters of the heart, the eyes have it.
Heh heh.
That must be it. For the record, I believe that is known as “moose knuckle.” 
Underline mine: you’re married to Poison Ivy?
Are you freakin’ crazy?
The attractive things were memorialized the first 2 years. The unattractive things have been building up silently the whole time. Let that sleeping dog lie.
I’m really curious why you wish her fingers were bigger, but I’m a little afraid to ask.
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Good thread, folks – thanks. Several have hit upon what I think is an important general observation: that just about anyone can be sexy to their spouse SOME OF THE TIME, and not at OTHER TIMES. The factors which determine this are so numerous – half the factors are about the perceiver’s state of mind, hunger, etc., etc., at the moment, and the other half are about the perceived’s appearance (and smell, and attitude, etc.) at the moment, including such things as posture, time since last shave, etc. Then, there are the entirely external factors which can make a moment sexy or not (ambient temperature, noise, presence of kids, etc. etc.).
So many complex factors, there are bound to be moments when we find our SO sexy, and bound to be other moments when we do not. Try not to take it personally, and don’t make any radical decisions about the relationship just based on this.
And to paraphrase the Robin Williams character in Good Will Hunting, the flaws are (or can be part of) the “good stuff”.
Nah, he’s Indian. But Dirty Old Indian Man sounds so forced.
I find my boyfriend incredibly sexy but I must admit it took me a long time to get used to his uncircumcized penis. I still don’t find it his most attractive attribute.
I’m really having trouble imagining how this conversation went that didn’t result in your wife feeling pretty crap about herself.
I dunno, if my husband asked me what parts of him I found unattractive and I said ‘none’ and then he launched into a laundry list of things about me that he found nasty including my big flabby thighs, skinny lips, etc. I think my feelings would be pretty hurt.
However, I totally recognize that I wasn’t there and that may not be how the conversation went down.