::looks around, reaches for bottle of tequila::
My husband is a heterosexual man who greatly enjoys anal stimulation and penetration. Generally, I believe it occurs a lot more in his solo pleasure, as I am less interested. I have used a strap-on on him once, and he enjoyed it. He kept giving me directions, though, which leads me to think he’s better off doing it himself. (And quite experienced.) I found it awkward to penetrate him with the dildo, as I wasn’t getting feedback from it as I would from using a finger etc., and couldn’t tell when I was crossing the line between pleasure and pain.
I felt immensely silly wearing the thing, but given enough tequila, I might try it again for him. I’d need the tequila; he doesn’t drink.
But he enjoys his butt!
::quickly posts and exits forum before husband arrives home::
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-Tcat
It should be mentioned that some guys just don’t like buttplay, even if they try it. In fact, a pretty significant portion of gay men don’t engage in anal sex.
No, seriously. Honest.
Gay equals buttlovin’ seems to be some sort of axiom in our society, and it’s just not necessarily true. And despite what Cosmo suggests, not all men enjoy so much as a finger up their assholes. Male sexual response is no more uniform than female sexual response, and it may well be that a lot of the guys who have no interest in trying it simply wouldn’t enjoy it, and maybe that’s why they’re not seeking it out in the first place.
I’d give it a shot.
Been there, done that, don’t need the tee-shirt thank you.
I miss the woman who taught me how much pleasure can be had by stimulating your anal nerves.
I find fingers to be too rough. Smooth silicone, on the other hand, isn’t so bad.
In general it’s not so much the physical sensations as the general kinkiness of it that I like. Definitely a mental thing.
I went through a period where I absolutely couldn’t get enough of it. These days, I could take it or leave it. Changing tastes, I guess.
And it’s not something I’d publicly admit to in person. In fact, when buying butt toys, I often contemplated pretending that I was gay, because somehow that seemed more socially acceptable to me than being a butt lovin’ het guy.
Honestly, I’d rather keep my saying. It’s become sort of a catchphrase for me among my pals…it’d almost be like selling out.
I’m not aware of having much of any kind of attitude about something entering my anus. I can’t honestly say I spend a lot of time thinking about it. When I do, it’s usually in the context of anal rape, which I associate with athletic jocks and fratboys in groups doing it to humiliate.
I’d be a lot more grossed out about being confronted at close range by someone else’s anus.
I’ve had two colonoscopies and get a digital rectal exam as part of my annual physical. Those experiences were about 180 degrees off from “fun.” Thanks all the same, but I’ll pass on getting anything more shoved up my ass.
No thanks!
I don’t find anal penetration, giving or receiving, erotic. (My wife feels the same way) Maybe I’ll try the prostate thing someday, if I can find it. I do like having the outside of my ass grabbed/caressed whilst having sex sometimes.
I’m straight and I’ve never tried it, but I’ve had fantasies about it.* In fact I’ve thought about buying Mrs. Stone a strap on just to try it some day.
- I first realised my interest with it when I had a dream about a woman with a strap on doing me. Even in the dream I was shocked at the idea and then realised that I liked it.
Me either, but according to a survey I read of somewhere, about 10% of heterosexuals do anal sex or have done it.
For what it’s worth, Dan Savage of Savage Love ran a contest a few years back to come up with a name for this practice. The winner was “Pegging”.
IIRC, his Aunt Peg was a little pissed off about that.
For the record, I’m another straight guy who likes it in the butt. Ironically, I also like tequilla.
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Well watta ya know. I’ve inadvertently inspired a two page anal sex thread. Well, by way of Hung Mung by way of Feydeau…but still. I’m so proud 
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Anyway, given that my SO is in some respect the ultimate origin of this thread I suppose I should speak up for him. And say, just as a point of information that we don’t “peg”. It just doesn’t lend itself to the D/s nature of our realtionship. However…well, there’s the rub ( 
)…despite been very D to my s, he doesn’t have any problem with me…er…servicing him there as well as elsewhere. Would seem to be a shame to let a good errogenous zone go to waste. (And not something any Dom…or more vanilla guy…should let happen. IMHO)
Hmmm…apparently I have first inspired and now killed a thread on anal sex…
Well, I don’t know if this will change its prostate condition (malapropism intended) but I wanted to come back to say, while I like the term pegging…part of me thinks it should have been something like “gomorrahizing”…or something. I mean I’ve always felt bad that they got just as distroyed but never had anything named after them. It’s just not fair.
I’m game! I’ve done it only during solo sex, and I discovered that an orgasm with a butt plug in place is insanely intense.
As would butt-sex between a man and his proctologist! Ahh, the joys of the English language…
I’m a straight guy, and I’d totally let my woman do me in the butt. I swear, some guys think they’re going to instantly turn gay if anything goes in there, but as others have said, they don’t know what they’re missin’.