I’m kinda disappointed that a great deal of the people in this thread aren’t bothering to make points about anything except their dicks. Certainly lends credibilty to the side of the sexual active.
Anyway, I’m all for saving your virginity for marriage, but not if it means repressing sexual desire. That’s unhealthy. If you’re mature enough to handle the sex, you shouldn’t make yourself unhappy by withholding sex in a committed relationship, just because you aren’t married.
I do get pissed off at people who call themselves virgins, but have oral sex. Many STDs can be spread through oral sex, and, come on, an orgasm is an orgasm.
That is a pretty fucked up view of sex. So what does she mean, is she no longer pure when she has sex with her husband? She seems to imply that she is going to be spending her purity now that she is married.
Of course there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin at 22. I don’t think anyone here was saying anything to that effect.
I would say to you: If you want to have sex then go ahead, because you CAN have emotional intimacy at the same time as the physical intimacy. It’s not an either/or thing.
Maybe I misunderstood your post, but that’s my take.
Let’s look at nature, shall we? An animal grows up, becomes sexually mature, and starts bellowing/screeching loudly to let potential mates in the vicinity know she’s lookin’ fer love. That’s natural. Twisting ourselves up in knots about sex/no sex/virginity/purity/sluttiness etc. is not natural. It’s human.
Yes but humans are part of nature, featherlou. Just because we’re the most evolved species doesn’t mean we’re not as much a part of nature as cats and dogs.
Hm… small nitpick here arisu, but don’t assume that just because someone is not a virgin and not married that he/she didn’t wait until he/she had that emotional intimacy. Not every pre-marital sex partner (nor even most, I’d imagine) is a one night stand.
I would recommend against using arguments rooted in biology when one’s understanding / perception of biology is as skewed as the above posts would seem to indicate.
This assumes that one CAN find someone willing to be emotionally and/or physically intimate with oneself. I appear to possess a unique combination of physical characters which renders me utterly unattractive to all members of the opposite sex (regardless what one might hear, personality will only carry one so far…and I have precious little of that, as well). It would seem, then, that I am doomed to virginity, neither by morals nor by choice.
OK, people insult me, say I’m unnatural, and somehow that measnss I am judging them? Color me confused. This seems to be a “let’s mock virgins, shall we?” thread, and I’m sorry, I can’t help but feel a bit attacked.
Eonwe and samarm I in no way think that only marriage= emotional intimacy. I’m sorry if what I said came across that way. I have no moral hangups about sex, just haven’t found the right person for me yet (whic happarently makes me aunnatural according to featherlou; her comment was the one that most provoked my ire). If I can find emotional intimcay , I don’t think I’ll wait till marriage to have sex.
Is anyone else tired of hearing Tucker tell us about how big his dick is? I’m relatively new to the boards and certainly don’t read them daily, but it seems like this is about the third or forth thread (at least a couple of which you’ve started) in which you make it a point to tell us about about how big your dick is.
Frankly, this whole thread strikes me as a simple attempt to remind anyone who could have possibly missed it about your claims of having a big dick.
As they say, ‘methinks he protestest too much’. I’m guessing you drive the sportiest car you can possibly afford.
How about we stop hearing about your massive elephant-sized cock and you share with us instead thoughts you have that exist in that other little head of us?
(sorry, you started this in the pit)
As night fell, the Dopers sat in a circle around the fire, arguing about who had the biggest, baddest wang. Tuckerfan and Samarm talked about the pain they’d inflicted. Jack Batty said something about congress. The fire slowly died as others spoke of length and of girth, of flexibility and staying power, of the glorious wonders that lay coiled and quiescent in their underwear, boastful tales of sexual wonder drifting off into the ether. Furt lurked silently, slowly stirring the coals with his penis.
