What does this have to do with the receptiveness of your garage?
Besides if he was keeping it “in the garage all the time” he wouldn’t be complaining would he?
- Find a woman who has a similar sex drive as you. It does vary.
- Be good at sexytime. Not everyone is. It takes work.
- If you find a woman who requires you to take out the garbage in order to be turned on, run.
If your primary interest is frequent exciting sex then stop having long term relationships.
None of these suggestions will actually get you any more sex, but that isn’t their primary objective - once you start up a thread like this you’re putting yourself on ground zero for a tirade of accusations to the effect that you’re a neglectful mate, an insensitive clod, an idle good-for-naught and a lousy lover to boot, to say nothing of being undeserving of any sex at all by virtue of being so ungracious as to complain, or should just have sex with men instead. This obviously affords certain citizens hereabouts much comfort and amusement, so you can content yourself with having done your fellows something of a service at least.
Some of the arguments made upthread are just flat-out laughable - for instance, the vehicle-in-the-garage analogy, which rather ignores the possibility that the vehicle might actually want to be taken out for a drive regularly and have at least as much of an interest in being ready to go as you would, to say nothing of wanting you not to be driving around in any other vehicles. Others… well, the idea that if you were better at sex you’d get laid as much as you want is also one that’s not borne out by at least my experience, 'cos you can be avowedly the best lover someone has ever had, to the point that when she’s on about her fourth or fifth orgasm she’s exclaiming “How can I ever not want to do it?”, and she’ll still be patiently explaining later that if she likes it twice a week, tops, and you would like it three or four times, then you’re going to compromise and do it twice a week, tops. But, y’know, even one year’s acquaintance with this place should have shown you that, when you ask this question, all is not going to end well.
As some people in your thread have noted, good sex depends on your behavior and attentiveness outside the bedroom. Make sure and read badger5149’s post very carefully!
That is because the premise is that the car does not. Why should we ignore the actual situation the OP has described in favor of a totally different one?
I know lots of relationships of sexual mismatch where the more desirous partner is the woman. But that isn’t the case in this OP.
But yeah, ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer. Sexual motivations are as varied as individuals are. What do you expect to hear but the usual “men are all unhelpful assholes/women are all whores who fuck on reciept of appropriate payment” platitudes?
That is really the key. It doesn’t matter if you are male or female, everyone has a different level of sexual need. The key is to find a partner who feels the same as you. Of course the unfortunate part is that some peoples sex drive will change over time which will lead to problems down the road.
That isn’t possible though on average. Of course it is for some lucky people…
Sure it is. Its not an exact science. We are talking in generalities. Someone who has a high sex drive should be with someone with a high sex drive. That does not equate to both wanting sex exactly 4.5 times a week. But someone who requires sex multiple times a week needs to find someone who also feels that way. With the understanding that life sometimes gets in the way.
Do the dishes, clean the house, and have a awesome dinner ready for her when she gets home.
AKA:The good boy reward.
Leopard-print googly-eyed elephant underpants. Drives the ladies horny with laughter.
Hold her hands, kiss her for 20 seconds straight, and call her your whore. She’ll either swoon or press charges.
Indeed. I can’t manage to equate sex with trash bags. If only he did this that and the other, would these women really turn into sex fiends? I doubt it.
Respect her and treat her as an equal.
Thanks for the response! I’m curious, how would you go about it (if you can share here)?
You can always try the Naked Man.
Boff her best friend. Or her Mum. Or both in a sexy threesome.
For every women you’ve had sex with, think about how hard you worked to get that chance the first time. Then compare: how hard did you work to secure the chance for sex with that same woman later in the relationship?
For some men, the harsh reality is that meritocracy is substantially forgotten as the relationship wears on.
Like that will ever work..
Change things up a bit. Ask her to peg you while you both wear dinosaur masks while old Loony Tunes episodes play in the background while she calls you her pretty princess.
Or maybe something slightly tamer if that’s too much excitement all at once.