I held the halls in my mouth while doing it. Lick it all over then pull it out and breathe on it gently.
It supposedly feels pretty nifty. You can keep the halls in your cheek during. It’s a novelty trick.
**Enthusiasm is key. I once went to a seminar by Nina Hartley and she gave basically the same advice. **
I’ve heard it works fantastically, and that in fact it’s also a great idea to actually stick a mint (though not an Altoid as they’re too strong) in there, or leave it in your mouth and letting it dissolve naturally during the act rather than chewing it up first.
Right, a lot of it is the caring involved. The ex-GF loved to give blow jobs; as much as anything, she just loved my erection. And I loved her for that.
One minor point: after the guy’s orgasm, things are a little messy. Still, the lady liked to lick up the mess. Problem is that at such a time, the head and underneath are especially sensitive. There are times when the ladies are especially sensitive, no? Probably a bit like that.
That is, she got me to flinch a few times. But such a small price to pay.
The same can be done with (small) ice cubes, to great effect. They’re what I use if I have dry mouth - they also refresh me! Trap it between his penis and your tongue and run it along his penis - but keep it moving so you don’t freeze the little fella! BIG! Big fella - that’s what I meant. :o
I also got interesting results once from a mouth full of seltzer water…
They teach seminars on this.
I did not know that.
Altoids are nice.
A freshly brushed mouth can give a similar, but lesser, feeling.
Apropos this thread, I was driving on route 30 near Jennerstown, PA and saw a sign that read Trail Head Parking. I told my gf, “Boy, when we were young, they never provided a parking lot for trail head.”.
This is a topic I need advice on. What is it exactly that is supposed to go on and when? Is it like a clit? For me, if I just came that way, it should be no more rubbing but no instant abandonment either. Gentle pressure with no moving for about 15 seconds is ideal. Are dicks like that and are all people the same in that? I’m not really stupid but my ex boyfriend has confused me on this whole topic and I don’t remember. What I really need to know is step by step what is the comfortable chain of events from when it starts to cum to when you stop touching it.
A few pointers, from my experience:
I learned to do it from a book, “Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man.” Seriously, it was the best advice I’ve ever gotten and the results have been fan-fucking-tastic. 
Okay! This was what I thought but I read some TMI thread on this board that led me to believe you shouldn’t stop moving around til it’s done. That was probably the swallowing thread. I always thought that by the time it started to cum it really didn’t matter if I stopped sucking it and pressed it up against my chin and lips so that it would cum mostly on my lips and nose and not go all into my mouth. Because sometimes I don’t feel like having it all go in my mouth or swallowing it. The thread made that out to be a CRIME. But my ex never complained, he said he liked to see it come out anyway and it felt good pressed up there. That blowjob thread made it sound like the crime of the century.
Now I’m with someone new and I think the point might become moot anyway because I think if I try that on him he’s going to create a huge mess all over but I’m still not sure yet. Either way if it’s terrible I don’t want to do it. I’m not trying to be terrible.
You aren’t terrible. I’d let you practice on me. 
I think everybody’s just different. For me, the instant I’m about to come, you gotta completely stop moving. I don’t like any pressure whatsoever. Any movement and I flinch. A little lick while cleaning up is okay, but nothing involving the hands or sucking. I always thought I was a bit unusual in this regard, as in pretty much all the pornos I’ve seen,the woman still strokes the penis as if she’s milking it after he comes. I would be in pain if you tried doing that to me.
That’s interesting- I dated quite a few Jewish girls in my pre-marriage days, and can say without a doubt that they gave me the best head I ever had, excluding my wife, of course. It got to the point that when I met someone Jewish, I could guarantee she’d give me mind-blowing head, and I was usually right.
Altoids- they definitely provide a stimulating sensation. If she chews a few and gets me nice and wet with her mouth, then blows gently on it, then sucks me back in- oh man.
DAMMIT! That makes me feel worse in a way but better in a way. It’s funny how sometimes people do talk as if everyone’s the same and there are rules.
Two quick questions.
Does anyone have any poprocks data to report on? Just curious.
Also, someone recommended using ones breasts in place of hands if their partner’s penis is too large to bring off with one’s mouth.
Can somebody please draw me a diagram of this? If I had a penny for everytime I’ve failed to execute this, I’d be able to buy myself a pack of chiclets by now. It seems like there’s always a knee or a leg or an arm or SOMETHING in the way, no matter how I try to position. I’m just sure I’m missing something here.
I don’t know if I can draw you a diagram, but here’s the picture:
Also, it works if the girl is on top and just moves down to where the dick is between the boobs. The guy can then use his hands to manipulate the boobs for optimum effect. If you were already doing oral, it’s very easy to get to this position. The guy then uses his own hip motion to drive the proceedings.
Ohhhh. Maybe a more firm surface is needed, if someone’s straddling me on a bed, I kinda feel like I can’t breathe.
goes to check the mail
This has happened to me as well, if the bed is soft. Try pillows under the guy’s knees.
I’ve got a male you can check…