Oh, he’s home now (sort of), and it’s only gotten worse.
He was mad Mom hadn’t dashed home the moment we knew he was gone. He thought I didn’t look glad enough to see him. I informed Mom, b-i-l, and sis, and then called police dispatch to tell them he’d come home. The dispatch officer told me, if at all possible, to get the keys from him. Wasn’t going to happen.
The bro comes up and tells me that Dad is packing up his things to MOVE OUT. When I relay this to police dispatch, she tells me to block his car and call 911 if he takes off on foot. Which I do, and then, finding the driver side door of his car unlocked, I popped the hood, opened the fuse box and started yanking every fuse I could.
Which was when Dad came out and found me, yelled “WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU’RE DOING!” When I didn’t answer, he grabbed my shoulder and hauled me around, when I turned back, he grabbed my arm and pulled me away. I had to break his grip with a self-defense move I learned two decades ago.
And then he raised his fist to hit me.
Bro stepped in, which stopped Dad. Dad told me to get my little tail out of the way. I said no, that he wasn’t leaving. He asked why, and I told him he wasn’t competent.
So, he took off on foot.
The police officers arrived shortly after that. One talked to Dad, the other talked to me, and before he could finish taking my statement, he was called down by the other officer to help with Dad.
And they called their “Crit Team” - a specially trained police officer and a clinician. And the original officer arrived and took the copy I’d made of the doctor’s incompetency letter. And several mentions were made of “conservatorship”, which we’d discussed at the beginning of this Hell, and put aside because it was too expensive.
And now Mom’s making the hour and a half drive home, my sister’s coming over as soon as school let’s out, and I went outside and watered the tomato plants, because that is something that people who aren’t having their lives turned inside out do.