Note what most of the attributes in the link are really about:
> 1. A strong feeling that they are “different” from other boys.
> 2. A tendency to cry easily, be less athletic, and dislike the roughhousing that
> other boys enjoy.
> 3. A persistent preference to play female roles in make-believe play.
> 4. A strong preference to spend time in the company of girls and participate in
> their games and other pastimes.
> 5. A susceptibility to be bullied by other boys, who may tease them unmercifully
> and call them “queer,” “fag” and “gay.”
> 6. A tendency to walk, talk, dress and even “think” effeminately.
> 7. A repeatedly stated desire to be — or insistence that he is — a girl.
None of them are explicitly about wanting to have sex with men. Number 7 is perhaps explicitly about wanting to have a sex change, but then it doesn’t really belong on the list at all. Is there any tendency for homosexuals to want to be women?
What these warnings are really about is the labeling of someone who refuses to try to dominate other people as homosexual. That’s what the popular tendency to use the labels like “fag” are really about. Boys, before they even understand what either homosexuality or hetrosexuality is about, will use terms like “fag” to torment other boys. Calling other men homosexuals among the most ardent anti-homosexual advocates is about achieving dominance, not about sexual orientation itself. That’s why they are so concerned about boys who are unathletic, or who are bullied easily (i.e., refuse to bully other people), or who act effeminately (i.e., act like a woman, who, of course, are subsurvient and can be bullied). In some sense, this is really about power, not about sex.