Time for some basic dating advice

{late poster…there’s never any cake left either…}

I’m glad the OP called. When two people hit it off at first, its often the timbre of each others voices that sets the tone of attraction (yes there are 4 other senses, but old-fogey that I am, I’m assuming taste and touch are for later dates). You think about what you want to say. You make notes of restaurants that are nice that you’d like to show her (and what days they are open/closed). You map out 10 or 12 fun things to do as possible suggestions that are in season and in your price range…and you have your notes writen on a note pad in front of you. Yes, you do your homework…and you do it because your heart tells you that she’s worth it.

Finally, the time arrives. She’s not at work, not at dinner, its less than 72 hours after you got the number, but more than 24. The window of opportunity is here, and the D.I. in your head says “We’re over the target zone. Jump, Jump, Jump!”

You grit your teeth, you face your fears, you beg Og not to be humiliated/ rejected…and you dial her number.

And then you hear her voice.

And suddenly, you remember why you risked ulcers and humiliation to make this phone call…

Nice post, Count. :slight_smile:

It’s been really interesting to see the divergence of viewpoints on this.

I recommend that you take her here. The place is a bit odd but it looks pretty cool. Depending on the shows, it might be worth while and it definitely wouldn’t be the usual run of the mill date.

  • I’m married now but I never came up with something that different for a first date. You may want to try something less out there and in a different neighborhood. I haven’t been there at night so it might be a bit noisy.

…Wow. How have I lived in D.C. for five and a half years without knowing about that place? I dunno about a first date, but that seems like a perfect place to check out with some friends.

Its fairly new only having been around for a few months. The Rock n Roll Hotel is next to the Palace of Wonders.

Good show on calling and setting up the date. I agree with Count Blucher’s advice. Email really is too impersonal at this stage.

I get a 404 error when I click on the link.

And, Gadarene, I’m glad to hear that it’s going well so far! You’ll tell us all how your date goes, won’t you? We need to know these things!

Looks like they changed the website around. Here is a fixed link.

Of course! What do you take me for? :slight_smile:

I’m 25, and I agree, although I don’t think it’s a big deal.

A text message thing would put me off, though. In the amount of time it takes to poorly spell a short message, you could have just called and not made me spend $0.10 to read it. I fucking hate those things.