Tired of putting up with female shit

The BBQ Pit
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Didn’t even notice this one until Neuro-Trash picked up on it.

Since when is this a female quirk?

I do this with my male friends all the time. Some of my female friends, too, but mostly the males.

Hells, from my experience, I’d be inclined to call it a distinctly male quality.

But I won’t.

Know why?

'Cuz it simply ain’t the case, any more than it’s the case that it’s a distinctly female quality.

You want a rational woman? Get rational yourself first, inane-rant-boy. Rational people aren’t attracted to people who make absurd, irrational rants such as the one that started this thread.

‘They couldn’t hit an Elephant from this dist…!’

Last words of General John Sedgwick

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trash-grrrl,

“Stay the fuck out of my way”?? Listen Trash, your post surpasses just irrationality, it’s emotional. You let yourself get caried away in a wash of emotions while you battle someone who believes differently than you. Granted, this is the place to fume but if you responded to me it was becasue there is something you thought I should know. You let me know I’m right. So far, I think I’m pretty safe in my assumption that women are far to irrational and emotional for their own good. You would have made a better case for femalekind if you would have ignored me. And to all the others, I think women are MORE irrational than men, not that men are not irrational.

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OK ladies… ignore him…DO NOT let him breed!..How’s that for rational, pal ???

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Well, that’s it!

Look what you did Neurotrashgrrrrl!

You lost the big case!

Now we are found guilty by Judge Dimbulb, and sentenced to life without the possibility of his respect!

Oh well, does anyone care? And if he wanted us to ignore him…why did he post?

rolls eyes
Whatever…if you want to take the example of a couple of hard to live with women, and the flames of a woman to ‘prove’ your case, well then I have a case to prove too:

You are a jack-ass.
You are probably homosexual and afraid to admit it.
You most certainly feel threatened by strong women - probably the result of growing up with a controlling mother and an absent father.
I believe the term is mysoginist…if I gave a rats ass about you I would look it up to check the spelling, but I dont.
You are an anal retentive loser, and I feel sorry for you, you will NEVER find a woman ‘good enough’ for you and you will die a lonely old bitter man…pondering why you could never find a ‘good woman’.

I declare my case proven, as I am basing it entirely on this assanine thread.

I am neither upset nor irrational as I write this…See, I got fucked sensless just 16hours ago, and I am as peaceful and serene as can be. Go take your hand on a date, and you might have a better perspective.
B’bye.

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Hey Occam, have you ever considered starting up a website that offers $10,000 for a woman? That might be your only chance.
Give it a try http://www.10kforawife.com
Or, perhaps this little lady is more along your line of thinking. At least you will be able to eliminate that whole scary emotional thing. Get a clue moron.

Yes, the weather is the same up here. Yes, I play basketball. No, never heard a tall joke before. Aaaargh.
[Note: This message has been edited by Lynn Bodoni]

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Okay, having had a chance to calm down some…

First of all, does it really matter what “Judge Dimbulb” thinks as a result of my posting?* If this had been a real trial, before a real judge, I would have blown my case big time, but it’s not. In all probability, a carefully reasoned and logical response would have failed to change his outlook one iota.

Second, reading the OP made me more furious than I have been at anyone in recent memory. And as a result, I had an emotional outburst. Am I ashamed of this? No, I can’t say that I am. It is an entirely natural and healthy thing to express one’s anger, a point I believe I was driving at. I could have just bottled it up and allowed it to poison me, as I have on so many other occasions, but I didn’t, and I feel much better for it. I’m sure that many of my “irrational” compatriots, female and male, would say the same.

Thirdly, reread the OP, but this time, replace “women” with “blacks”, “Jews”, or some other group, and then imagine about how long it would take for the shitfight to begin.

And finally, this patronizing, condescending attitude towards my gender is something I’ve had to put up with for a long time (as have we all), from many people. It has always made me angry, but I never did anything about it, and as a result, the patronization and condescension just got worse, sometimes degenerating into out-and-out abuse. I refuse to do that anymore.

I spoke once, in anger. I now speak in full control of my emotions. If Occam does not really feel the things he expressed in the OP, then let him also come forth and speak in control of his emotions (because, surprise surprise, he has them). I felt the need to clarify and express more fully, and less “irrationally”, things I expressed in the previous post. Perhaps you see this as further proof of female irrationality. I see it as proof of a healthy human being. Perhaps such things are anomalies in your universe, but they certainly aren’t in mine.

*And, yes, kellibelli, I do realize you were being facetious.

Modest? You bet I’m modest! I am the queen of modesty!

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In other words, Occam, if you want to be taken seriously by women, ditch the macho, misogynistic, bigoted bullshit.

Prick.

-andros-

“Listen Children Eternal Father Eternally One!” Exceptions? None!
-Doc Bronner

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Good. :wink:

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I often feel the same way about women that Occam does.

I am female.

Now, I do have female friends. Most of them are much more level-headed than the norm. I have, however, seen women fight and make up constantly, both with one another and in their relationships with men. I don’t see this as often with men. Personally, I don’t understand it.

I’ve spent practically all day today talking to a good male friend of mine whose girlfriend is going crazy because she’s feeling neglected for sports. Any idiot can see that he’s in love with her–in fact, he gets more goofy about her than I could possibly imagine anyone to be, male or female. He’s practically giddy when he talks about her. But does that make a difference to her? No way. He cheers for a frigging baseball team too much, and she’s threatening to end the entire relationship.

I really think I identify with men more than I do with women. They’re much more predictable, and while they’re not, as a whole, as emotionally accessible, I’ve managed to find a few who are, and they’re my bestest buddies in the whole wide world. And they can understand certain realities that women I know can’t, like the fact that sex isn’t always about emotions, and that going out three times doesn’t constitute a relationship, even if you DID sleep with him.
Now, I’m sure that all the women are going to be up in arms over this one. Remember, however, that I am 21 years old and in college. Remember the majority of the women you knew at that age. Did they or did they not act like this? I think this is where Occam is coming from. And to him I’d like to say that most of them will grow out of their fickle personalities. Most of the women I am close with are aunts, my mom, and my grandmother. I have exactly ONE close female friend my age.

At least, I hope they grow out of it, anyway.
Fueling the fire,

Libby

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Man meets woman. Woman finds man interesting.
Woman feels proprietary. Decides man would be perfect if certain changes made. Makes list of changes. Institutes change making program. Man has two choices: 1, Make changes or 2, remain true to self and do not change. If man selects option #1, woman loses respect for man because he allowed himself to be dominated and manipulated. If man selects option #2, woman hates him because he is not her perfect man. Man cannot win, in woman’s mind, the battle between the sexes.

Crystalguy

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CrystalGuy: Are you really going to pretend that guys don’t try to make changes too? It’s called compromising.

You say “cheesy” like that’s a BAD thing.

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A woman’s idea of a compromise is when she grinds the man into the dirt and gets her own way. Pouting, crying, sex all count as grinding the man into the dirt. A mans idea of a compromise is when both parties are satisfied with the arrangement, even if it is not one either of them originally wanted.

Crystalguy

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My my my crystal guy you have alot to learn about women… otherwise the only thing you are gonna be grinding is yourself.

We are, each of us angels with only one wing;
and we can only fly by
embracing one another

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You’re dealing with the wrong women, mon…but then again, if that’s all you expect, then that’s all you’ll get.

You say “cheesy” like that’s a BAD thing.

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Drain Bead & Crystalguy—
Back, back, baaaack, to 21…
I think what your’e both getting entangled in is the dominant society’s version of “female”, and that’s quite easy to do. I, too, was always the buddy gal to guys, and still am, but have learned to distinguish the Tool line from the intricasies of reallife. Sometimes women resort to these tactics, and men resort to equally dysfunctional(ewwww, the “D” word) coping mechs. After awhile, with any luck, folks see just how useless these reactions are, and progress to something more heartfelt and equitable than what passes as-rationality- in this hardscrabble world. Perhaps in the early years, that old hardwired urge to breed scrambles everyone’s noggin so much that it becomes more of a war. But after the genetic me-first miasma dies down,(even if it ain’t your overt posture, think it’s sadly still in our drive) hopefully we all find more fun ways to get along.

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Canadian Sue: I have, in a long life, done a lot of grinding. Often enough with women who could not resist a genuine indifference to them. Undoubtedly I would be ever so much better off had I stuck to grinding only with myself. At my advanced age, grinding is not the priority it once was. So my complaint is not with a lack of grinding. It has been my experience that women, generally speaking, instinctively set out to change the very things they originally found most attractive in a man. In other words, women seem to be incapable of leaving a good thing alone—they have to tinker with it until it doesn’t work anymore. And yes, men sometimes do the same but this thread is about women. And men are not so prone to nit-pic as are women. Plus, in the courtship(?) stage, women tend to be good sports, liberal, open-minded, willing to try new things but when the hook is set, things change. There is an old joke about why women smile as they walk down the aisle at their wedding—ask around, someone will tell it to you.

Crystalguy

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Crystalguy, can you say ‘misogynist’?

With an attitude like that, no wonder all of the women you know try to change you!

Too many freaks, not enough circuses.

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No, but I can say “old and grumpy.” In the cold light of day (sober) I can also say that my previous posts somehow don’t seem as funny as I thought while I was composing them. They are not reflective of my true attitude about women. Canadian Sue, my comment to you was gross and un-called for. I appologize.

Crystalguy

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Drain Bead wrote,

Girlfriend, high five! ::smack::

I’m also female, straight, 30 years old and have found that the older I get, the further away from these bitchy-ass women.

The women I have known who fit in this category have the following characteristics:

Mainly, they enjoy drama. Drama queens. If there is no problem in their life, it’s boring. So they cause problems.

Subsets of the main characteristic:

  1. They believe the only way to solve a problem is to yell, cry or whine about it.

  2. If they have a problem with a person, they tell them (with a straight fac) that there’s no problem, then go around bitching about them behind their back.

  3. They enjoy making a scene.

I just got rid of a “friend” who does all of these things. Good riddance.

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, dogs are from Pluto. - Anonymous

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Occam wrote:

I hate to break this to you, Occam, but not all emotions are irrational!