My MIL is at it again. Let me explain, wait that will take to long. Let me sum up. My husband’s brother was married, had an affair then asked for a divorce. The divorce was final last week. Before/during said affair BIL and SIL were trying to have a baby. The affair and divorce obviously put an end to that. When BIL got married, MIL quit nagging me all the time about having kids- just only sometimes.
The ink was barely dry on the divorce papers by the time my MIL started hounding me after Easter dinner on Sunday. “Oh, you guys should have kids…blah, blah, blah… I miss not having anyone to make Easter baskets for blah, blah, blah…” ad nauseam. Of course she did this while Mr. Geek was outside talking with his dad. She was obviously mad at me when we left, as she didn’t even tell me goodbye.
We went through this right after we got married almost three and a half years ago. We explained that we didn’t want to have kids. That it is our choice and she should respect that. We thought it was over.
I waited until we got home from dinner to tell Mr. Geek that she started in on me again. I was fairly upset about it. He said he would talk to his mom about it. He just doesn’t know how to make her understand that we don’t want kids and it is nothing against her.
GAH! I won’t be able to take it if she won’t back off about it. She is always talking about neat baby stuff she sees in catalogues or stores. “Oh, Whole Foods has the cutest baby clothes made from hemp.” “Oprah/Martha/Rosie (whoever) was talking about this fantastic baby toy/gadget/clothes etc…” “I saw the cutest thing for babies over at the Pottery Barn Store” “Don’t you guys think that having a kid would be fun” AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!
Has anyone else had to deal with this from your families? If you got them to stop, how did you do it?