I think the plan is great. The only thing better than a BJ, is two BJs. You should have given him one before you sent him off to work this morning.
That sounds pretty perfect. You don’t need any improvements, but if you to go over the top, just pamper him as much as possible. Cook dinner, don’t let him help with the dishes, long backrub after the bj, etc. Emphasize that it’s his night and you’re pampering because you love him and he should just sit back and enjoy it. He’ll worship you.
Wrong, She should bring a friend for each year he has lived through. So if he is turning 27 she needs to bring 26 friends!
Maybe you should talk to him? Ask him is there is anything ‘special’ he wants for his birthday.
I hope he had a day off too, shucks he could be exhausted when he gets there.
“Is it typical for oral sex to be reserved for special occasions?”
If you get a BJ on your birthday, but she doesn’t want one on her birthday, does that mean anything?
I can’t speak for all men or even for your BF, but for me, just having a girlfriend who cares as much as you appear to would be enough.
I think the dj is a bit much if it’s just the 2 of you. Maybe just play some CDs…
Yeah, I misread the OP at first. Carry on.
Give him a threesome.
Good if it involves a stranger. Better if it involves a good girl friend. Best if it involves your twin sister.
Neither did I!
Seriously, what my husband likes is attention and food. So the bj and some snacks handy make him a happy birthday boy.
Not if he wants to live to see 28.
I direct your attention toward http://www.steakandbjday.com/ - Steak and Blowjob Day!
Also applicable to birthdays, as in this case.
Indygrrl, I concur with Khadaji… they need to clone you.
Incidentally, if he has to work earlier in the day or something, make him give you his house key and answer the door naked when he comes home… now THAT’s a thrill.
I hope this isn’t too late, and I just wish to hell my wife would do this kind of thing. If the BJ isn’t reserved for just special occassions, make it a special one. Perhaps while giving him a massage while you’re wearing your sexy clothing. Or, while he is driving you to dinner. Hell, while he’s watching baseball or Buffy. Or while walking in some secluded spot. Whatever you think will give either of you a special thrill.
Then jump his bones at the end of the night.
we men are easy to please.
show up nekkid. bring food and beer.
simple, really.
I’m not your typical guy, Indygrrl, so this is mostly moot, but:
A night alone where anything worn would not be difficult to remove.
No distractions. Maybe a sheet or something. Nice, comfy bed. No alcohol (I personally don’t care for it … hate the taste). Don’t much like cake either, and BJs don’t get it for for me.
This may be my most pointless post in a while. The question isn’t “What do men want” but “what does my man want?” and it appears you’ve already answered that question:)
You’ll of course provide us with an update:D
Thanks, guys.
Ok, the night went very well. I made a devil’s food cake, cleaned the apartment really well, lit a bunch of “sensual” scented candles, and greeted him in a very sexy nightie. I turned out all the lights and poured two glasses of wine. When he got there he was surprised and very smiley. We sat on the couch for a minute and then started kissing, etc. At that point we took it into the bedroom.
I put on Jeff Buckley, “Grace,” and gave him a rockin’ bj, which put a big smile on his face, then he did me, and then we had sex in various positions. It was fabulous.
After the sex we went back to the couch and ate cake, drank wine, and watched Signs. Then we went to bed and slept very very well.
I need a girlfriend.
Indygrrl my birthday was last Saturday. Had dinner out with my family, except the kids were at in-laws. Shared a pretty good bottle of wine. Got matching t-shirts for my 3yo son and me from my mother which is quite cute. Left the restaraunt, picked up the kids went home put them to bed and…fell asleep on the couch.
If I say I hate your boyfriend, I really don’t mean it. It’s just ugly green envy.
<sigh>
oh, and Bruce_Daddy? Make sure you ask for a girlfriend like Indygrrl. Cause in my (extremely limited) experience, there are lots of women who are NOT like her.
Poor bunny, there really are a lot of women like me, at least the ones I know. You guys can come to Indy and I’ll hook you up with some ladies.
Thanks Indygrrl. If only I knew then what I know now. I’ll ask my wife if she wants a little weekend trip to Indy and I’ll get back with you.
Apparently only in my house. 