What makes a girl "dirty" - in a good way?

[Freudian_Slit]

@BigT

You and MeanOldLady seem to have a lot of comments similar to this. You’d think by now you’d understand how conservative (with a little c) many Dopers are, relative to you.

Still, I have to agree with you. None of that stuff is really dirty anymore. It’s really just a girl who looks and acts like she likes wild sex. None of this stuff is particularly wild on its own. You’d pretty much have to have all of them, and then probably something else. You’d be physically and mentally exhausted by all the things you’d do.

The last option is really the best, as it’s the one that’s always there. The girl must like sex, and like it a lot. And it can’t be anywhere near vanilla, which is what I figure you mean by “risky.”

Well, MeanOldLady is one of our smartest Dopers.

But don’t most women like sex? I mean…I don’t know. I just get the vibe that this is all predicated on the assumption that the minute a woman does more than just tolerate sex, she’s some kinky superfreak, whereas most guys are assumed to like sex all the time/any time.