Where should I post my personal ad?

In My Humble Opinion
1

Aside from here, that is.

Good and bad suggestions of all kinds welcome.
—two, two, two threads in one -----

In the spirit of full disclosure, and because the SDMB is cheaper than therapy, I will explain the biggest problem I have in dating; I call it The God Thing.

I’m a really sincere Christian; it defines who I am and how I see the world. Consequently, any prospective serious relationship would have to be with someone who shares that; and at 33, I’m not very interested in relationships that have zero chance of eventually being serious.

The problem is that, I don’t like most other Christians. More accurately, I don’t like the sorts of Christians that I envision as submitting ads to Christian singles sites. I picture women who wear pantsuits and get frightened reading the Left Behind novels. I envision All God’s Bachelors hanging in a bunch. I picture people who feel uncomfortable when I order a beer or use profanity. It’s not that I hate them or think I’m better than them. We’re all hypocrites, just in different ways.

But it’s rough cruising amongst the godless heathen, too. On those rare occasions I manage to interest a female-type person, well … up comes The God Thing. And it’s frustrating as hell.
Anyway the opening question stands. Address the rant or don’t. If you want to tell me I’m arrogant or selfish or hypocritical, I agree in advance.

2

Post it wherever. Christian sites, non-Christian sites, wherever you feel it will lead to meeting the kind of woman you want to meet. Just say what you said here (perhaps without the invective) and hope for the best.

Of course, since the last man who replied to my online personal started his response with “You have a very kind face. I have breasts” I may not be the best person to be offering advice on this topic.

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Honey, for me, that’s not even close to invective.

And I’m not close to being able to afford posting everywhere. I guess I should have mentioned that I don’t have the time/money to sign up for a dozen different places. Most of the ones that are free to post want money to answer ads or read the responses sent to you or whatever.

4

If you live in a supported city, post at Craig’s List. It’s free and you will get results.