People are so weird.
What exactly is a pooter? It looks like it would be a butt or anus shot.
You actually know girls that send shots like these around? Color me shocked.
Crotchy shots, I mean. Split beaver poses. Come on you KNOW what I mean.
And which part is shocking - that girls do that, or that I know some?
OK, sorry, I really had never heard it before.
As far as the shocking part, I would say a little of both. But then I don’t know you very well. 
Jim
I would be overjoyed if my wife did any of those things. For her part, she is okay with me looking at porn but the other three would be completely unacceptable.
- You find out that your SO has been looking at porn online.
Who cares?
- You find out that your SO received a naughty picture from someone with whom they chat online.
Depends – did somebody just up and send it on their own initiative, or did SO do something that would reasonably be interpreted as inviting it?
- You find out your SO has shown some of their friends naughty pictures of you that you took for them.
Bad.
- Your SO suggests putting naked pictures of you online.
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Not good, but tolerable provided that “no” is taken for an answer and the subject is not raised again.